Hi Dadaboy,
Welcome to ADISC. Do you have any other hobbies or interests apart from all things DL related? are you married or with a partner and if so do they know about your dl side and are they supportive or not?. It's worth having a look at ADISC Intro, Rules and Tips, (link at top of page), this might give you a few ideas about what to say and there is a lot of info in there written for new members. Apart from that have a look through the forums and find 1 or some you like and dive in, you'll find the more you take part in threads the more you will get out of being a member. Have fun and again Welcome.