About Me
Hi. I´m a 1970 born man being incontinent since about 2008 due to nerve damage.
I have been through all kinds of testing, which is really tiring, but the conclusion was that since it is a nerve damage it is little I can do. I have a Urge incontinence and some leaks in between.
In the start it was hard. Was away from work and generally felt really bad. Tried urisheath which helped me to go back to work. But I found it to be very institutional and was fiddly. It was painful if the hose got a bend, and that in effect also caused some leakes. In addition during the night the setup was far from optimal.
After a year I started using diapers at night, that worked much better, but I still struggled with the shame and self acceptance. I later also changed to using diapers during they day as they arte more convenient.
I have come to accept and actually enjoy diapers. I just had a acceptance that this is the way it is and that this will have minimal impact on my life. And it has. My travel bag are a little larger, but I really have no problem with this.
And for the enjoyment that comes after acceptance I´m now sure that I will be in diapers for the rest of my life. I really enjoy it, but I hate leaks. In the 7 years I never had anyone notice my diapers or urisheath (before I switched to diapers).
A have also started to play with my AB side which have gotten stronger and stronger with time. I really would like to play together with another toddler, dressing up appropriately, playing with Lego, playing with cars, coloring etc.
I love diapers that are not to institutional, especially for night. That means fun diapers with prints.
- GomDLove
Hi. I´m a 1970 born man being incontinent since about 2008 due to nerve damage.
I have been through all kinds of testing, which is really tiring, but the conclusion was that since it is a nerve damage it is little I can do. I have a Urge incontinence and some leaks in between.
In the start it was hard. Was away from work and generally felt really bad. Tried urisheath which helped me to go back to work. But I found it to be very institutional and was fiddly. It was painful if the hose got a bend, and that in effect also caused some leakes. In addition during the night the setup was far from optimal.
After a year I started using diapers at night, that worked much better, but I still struggled with the shame and self acceptance. I later also changed to using diapers during they day as they arte more convenient.
I have come to accept and actually enjoy diapers. I just had a acceptance that this is the way it is and that this will have minimal impact on my life. And it has. My travel bag are a little larger, but I really have no problem with this.
And for the enjoyment that comes after acceptance I´m now sure that I will be in diapers for the rest of my life. I really enjoy it, but I hate leaks. In the 7 years I never had anyone notice my diapers or urisheath (before I switched to diapers).
A have also started to play with my AB side which have gotten stronger and stronger with time. I really would like to play together with another toddler, dressing up appropriately, playing with Lego, playing with cars, coloring etc.
I love diapers that are not to institutional, especially for night. That means fun diapers with prints.
- GomDLove