In my opinion, the biggest difference in the feeling of the wetnes is between disposable and cloth diapers. Cloth diapers do not "suck" away wetness and so feeling of the dampness / wetness stays much more present.
If you want / like the feeling of beeing wet in disposables, the best option are vintage diapers with few / no SAP, but they will absorb only few pee. there are modern diapers wich feel like the vintage ones, like the two bears sold on Temu.
What diapers do you wear actually and what kind of feeling are you exactly looking for?