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I’ve mentioned before that when I was growing up in the late 80s and early 90s before Pull-Ups and DryNites were available, I had a perception that nappies were not worn beyond the age of 3.
I knew that some of my friends wet the bed due to the telltale wee smell in the bedroom and the plastic or rubber mattress protectors.
There was a friend whose older brother wet the bed. His bed was protected by a 3 layer arrangement of rubber sheet, fleece blanket and terry top sheet.
Although I occasionally found nappies that I later suspected were worn for bed wetting by some, no-one ever admitted wearing them (though some admitted being bedwetters when asked).
Now that DryNites have been with us for so long, I would be interested to know whether those of you who have young bed wetting relatives are aware of whether their wearing what is essentially a nappy at night is now just “accepted”, or whether their parents still stick to the “nappies are for babies” line and protect the mattress in some other way?
Caveat- I’m not fishing for anecdotes about your nine year old bed wetting cousin- I’m interested in what the family attitudes are to managing the situation.
I ask as my partner has two friends with children with directly opposing views:
One had her kid sleeping on DryNites bed mat at two in the hope it would get the kid dry at night (being dry in the day already) and another had a kid who would happily wander around in a t-shirt and a DryNite pant at 6/7 even when there were visitors.
Back in the early 90s I suspect my parents views would have been against it had the issue really been discussed or needed.
My sister had an isolated bedwetting incident when she was about 4 or 5 (she literally only wet the bed a handful of times after night training) and the next day I was at the Sainsbury’s supermarket with her and my mother.
I slipped a pack of Peaudouce Up and Go for girls into the trolly, in the hope that my mother would think last night’s bed wetting justified her wearing them, and that I could get my hands on some that way.
My mother put them back, and when I suggested that my sister needed them, she gave a firm “no- they might make her lazy”.
I don’t remember what my sister thought!
I suspect that the “laziness” belief towards bed wetting was common at the time..?
I knew that some of my friends wet the bed due to the telltale wee smell in the bedroom and the plastic or rubber mattress protectors.
There was a friend whose older brother wet the bed. His bed was protected by a 3 layer arrangement of rubber sheet, fleece blanket and terry top sheet.
Although I occasionally found nappies that I later suspected were worn for bed wetting by some, no-one ever admitted wearing them (though some admitted being bedwetters when asked).
Now that DryNites have been with us for so long, I would be interested to know whether those of you who have young bed wetting relatives are aware of whether their wearing what is essentially a nappy at night is now just “accepted”, or whether their parents still stick to the “nappies are for babies” line and protect the mattress in some other way?
Caveat- I’m not fishing for anecdotes about your nine year old bed wetting cousin- I’m interested in what the family attitudes are to managing the situation.
I ask as my partner has two friends with children with directly opposing views:
One had her kid sleeping on DryNites bed mat at two in the hope it would get the kid dry at night (being dry in the day already) and another had a kid who would happily wander around in a t-shirt and a DryNite pant at 6/7 even when there were visitors.
Back in the early 90s I suspect my parents views would have been against it had the issue really been discussed or needed.
My sister had an isolated bedwetting incident when she was about 4 or 5 (she literally only wet the bed a handful of times after night training) and the next day I was at the Sainsbury’s supermarket with her and my mother.
I slipped a pack of Peaudouce Up and Go for girls into the trolly, in the hope that my mother would think last night’s bed wetting justified her wearing them, and that I could get my hands on some that way.
My mother put them back, and when I suggested that my sister needed them, she gave a firm “no- they might make her lazy”.
I don’t remember what my sister thought!
I suspect that the “laziness” belief towards bed wetting was common at the time..?
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