Recent content by TrashPanda

I am sure you know that going 6 hours without a bathroom break is what did it. Where I work, I get a break every 2 hours, and I always use the restroom at every break, and sometimes in-between. When you gotta go, you gotta go NOW, at least for me. I work in retail, though, and with what I am...

Yeah, yeah, it's a medical diaper. Not super fun to look at, but I think I want to try them. They have the stretchy sides with two little rectangles of that velcro-ish tape on them. These diapers are also cloth-backed. Just checking in here in case anyone has tried them. They are pretty new...

It is not fun at all. I was previously in your position, where I kind of fantasized about losing control, but I didn't really want it. I would much prefer not being incon, that is for damn sure. Firstly, when I started to lose bladder control, it was embarrassing, but manageable. I could get to...

Sit on the toilet, take off your pants and shoes & put them to the side, put down a plastic bag in front of the toilet, slowly untape the diaper and stand over the toilet, let anything in the diaper fall out into the toilet, slowly pull it from over the toilet and over to the plastic bag, tie it...

I use the toilet for BM's as much as possible, and for urinating when I can. It's actually a kind of successful feeling to use the toilet, because it's like "that's one less diaper to change," and "thank you, body, for allowing me to get to the toilet." No matter how much willpower I can muster...

I think it has something to do with washing your hands after each time you use the restroom? I have no idea, just that it isn't uncommon. Maybe it triggers the brain into thinking about urinating? I think it's similar to how I often wet when I open the door to my apartment. That particular...

I think the biggest obstacle to movies and TV shows having incontinent characters is that TV shows and movies rarely address characters even going to the bathroom normally. Books probably have even less instances of characters going to the bathroom. I mean, constipation is something that happens...

I had a similar experience to you. When I was a kid, I would have accidents pretty often and would get made fun of for smelling like pee at school. I also wet the bed until I was about 12 years old. I did not get any kind of protection because my parents did not really see it as an issue, and I...

I generally just wear boxers or sweatpants over my diaper around the house with my SO. Sometimes it is just the diaper and a t-shirt, but mostly only when I am dry. I know he doesn't care if I am in just a diaper, but I feel weird about letting him see that my diaper is wet. He knows I am...

I have issues with leaks when I use pullup underwear, but rarely with the diapers I found work for me. Idk about anyone else, but I personally love the way the elastic goes around my legs and rear on the Tena Ultras. It stays perfectly snug on my skin, and I have no leaks no matter what. The...

I wear underwear over my diaper most of the time, even at home. Unless I am just getting out of bed and not really dressed yet, I will just put on pants over the diaper if I need to go outside for any reason. I have not tried a onesie, but I feel like it would be beneficial, especially at work...

I think my most embarrassing moment was when I was at work, the diaper I had on was not the greatest. Thankfully no leakage or anything major, but it sagged quite a bit. I was pulling my pants down across my hips trying to make them as baggy as possible in the back so no one would notice. I did...

If you have the choice, I would not recommend giving "into full use." The best diaper I used before the fecal incontinence became a problem was the stretch-fit style diapers. They are easy enough to pull on and off when using the restroom. Make sure to wear plastic pants or tight undies over...

I was in the bathroom the other day, cleaning it, and had a poo accident right there. I thought to myself, "really?" If I had a warning, I would have used the toilet, but obviously that is the nature of incontinence. That was the moment I knew for sure that Tena Ultras are definitely my go-to...

Thankfully no nighttime incontinence, but as soon as I wake up and get out of bed... the flood gates open. I hope I do not start to wet in my sleep, and especially not mess in my sleep. That would be a bad time for both me and my partner, lol.