I am 55 yrs old, been wearing in secret all my live when I can. Wife knows but doesn't accept so I wear when alone. Do share the diaper experience with others when I can. Love to read about ABDL experiences and share online with others. After years of frustration and guilt over my DL side I have been more able to accept this as a fetish that is not going away. I love my job, my family, and life in general. Diapers are part of my life not my whole life. Would love to hear from others who have a similar experience being DL.