Recent content by Squirmyboy

How did y’all meet? At the gym???? There’s really no good way for us to flag, though ABU tries with the hats and there is an “official” flag...but yeah having friends and others in your life that are not just your partner is essential. Too many folks on this board are living in the closet...

The problem is you can’t keep it a secret. I knew I was ABDL in 1995 but still I never even considered dating without ABDL being a part of my relationship. You have to assess for yourself how important it is. I don’t have a sexuality apart from ABDL and I have no interest in normal relations...

Not at all true. There are psychoanalytic Insitutes that still follow Freud's methods and teaching, plenty of journals, academics, and practitioners, especially in major cities like NYC, Paris, London and Buenos Aires. You can visit the excellent Freud museums and libraries in London and Vienna...

I think in NYC what you want is that blend of trendy-artsy-little that unleashes the creative spirit in you...to follow in the footsteps of the likes of Banksy, Basquiat, Haring... who I think were really secret littles... Citizen M Bowery or Freehand would be my recos...here's more--...

Poop It keeps coming up because we like it, and at the same time it is probably the most taboo aspect of ABDL. We come here for support and for self-esteem, and hearing from others who also like it is good for our mental health. It isn’t really surprising that many of us find this pleasurable...

I have tried this before, and it can definitely be fun at first...but I think we got tired of it. Actually there was one small crisis that occurred because of it. My mommy locked me out of my phone after 2 AM so I wouldn't be up too late or in the middle of the night using it. But I had a trip...

It seems really hard until you go out and do it - I remember the first munch I "attended" - by looking in the window, freaking out, and going the other way. That was 6 years ago. Since then, however, I started my own monthly munch and went to 4 Teddycons and 3 Capcons. It's impossible to look...

There are a number of ABDL regular events in Montreal - I think they are on Fetlife. I met a few folks at the last Capcon, and they have a very active and vibrant scene there!

I'm just going to say that I mostly disagree with these thoughts. There are a number of reasons why it's okay, even should be encouraged for ABDL to be at pride and other events such as Fulsom. For one, kink has been at pride since the beginning of pride, and always has been a part of LGBT...

I’m a professor so yeh well still go to school. Being a professor is quite like being an upper level graduate student. Hardly any difference. You teach, grade and write papers. I think by the time I got my PhD I was in 29th grade!

Oh wow so sorry about that. I understand, I think most of us feel it is hard to break from our adult lives and feel little. That’s why we need each other! Both online and irl support is essential. There’s an abdl storytime that meets on zoom every Friday evening that could help you get into...

First of all it seems many of y’all are really shamed about feeling aroused. That makes some sense if you feel it violates some rule about being little. But it doesn’t. Even actual 2 year olds have these feelings - maybe not in the exact same way, but Freud posited the first three phases of...

These are all great and fun, but I dunno if sweets count. Everyone likes that stuff and your bigs should be limiting you/telling you no! No one said warm milk yet??!?? We make a lot of home-made soft baby-food texture stuff, in odd combos that are quite good, such as banana-cado (banana and...

I've seen this argument time and time again, and I think so far the conversation here has been respectful, intelligent, even open-minded to different perspectives, and that should be commended in itself, especially compared to the toxic environment of many other social media sites. We do not all...

Yeah it’s funny how this can happen, but I saw niece who is 2 watching it mesmerized and...shortly after I started watching and now love it just as much. It’s good, and the Aussie accents somehow help with little space because it’s actually kind of hard to understand at times for this American...