Recent content by nomadjoanne

I've definitely developed fetishes. I know the diaper thing for me started way back in the day as more of a wetting/messing thing but then evolved. But honestly this makes sense. The brain is plastic, we couldn't learn anything new if it weren't. It's common, for example, for the spouses of...

Zero zero zero risk, no. But for God's sake, getting out of bed and eating any food at all is a risk. I wouldn't worry about it.

I don't really like Abenas, especially the versions here in Europe. Very "clumpy" when they get wet.

I'd say that you are only doomed if you are unable to accept that this is a part of him that he cannot change and judge and shame him for that. However, that doesn't seem at all to be the case. Besides that, it really depends on how important it is to him that you participate. If it's something...

I suspect there's just no evolutionary pressure to improve it. Perfect control doesn't really matter in nature and when the majority of people start encountering issues, they have already had kids.

Oh the paperwork certainly is a concern if you are, say, like me an expatriate, involved in a lengthy process which assumes you will be in your country of origin. It requires background checks at both the state and federal level (the former is redundant as the federal one is... well...

@PCBaby: The legalities of changing your documents is also a nightmare for trans Americans. Funny enough, that isn't simply discrimination, although there is a fair amount of that. The US just generally sucks at that sort of thing. You need a freaking court order to change your name and...

These definitely exist, at least in the US. Here in Europe people are more openly pervy but apparently quite traditional with brick-and-motor business decisions XD

@BoundCoder: Yeah, I suspect that there is no evolutionary pressure to make this system perfect. While I suppose some primates might attract predators due to the smell of their feces and urine, most are very loud and live in large, not-easily-hidden groups anyway. There just wasn't really a...

There are a bunch of us! I am honestly more DL during the day than "little," but I have a little side I need to let out in the evenings, at least sometimes.

@sallyanne: I don't mind medical diapers. It's the majority of what I wear, just because, when wearing every day, cost becomes a big factor. But anyway, you say that babyish/feminine is the majority of the market here. I wonder what the ratio of ABs to DLs is, or if most DLs are just fine with...

Hey, I'm a bit late commenting here, but I can relate. I have complex ptsd and frequent panic attacks and manage it with both medical cannabis and diapers. Both have been very very beneficial. For the past couple of months I've been wearing pretty much every day and it has let me feel...

Lol, I have kind of wanted to launch a line of pocket cloth diapers with scientific illustrations, as well as ones outlining the various eons in earth's evolutionary history... the paleozoic, the mesozoic and the cenozoic... but I'm a very strange person. There are some like the ABU space...

Tenas are great for public wear, I find I can even (usually) get away with skinny jeans with them. Even the maxi and ultima (the most absorbant products) are very thin, at least until they get wet.

If you need to/want to use them for pooping, I'd really recommend some internal deodorant with cloth-backed. A poopy plastic-backed diaper will still smell but not nearly to the same extent, especially if you aren't moving around. I usually will use plastic-backed in the morning, as that's when...