Recent content by mrlibrary

Why is this in the incontinence forum? Seems a bit mocking for those of us having an actual problem.

To keep from soiling my clothes, my car, my furniture, your car, your furniture, etc.

Yes, there is such a thing as stress f.i.

What good ones have you found with elastic waistbands? The ones I've seen, the elastic is so weak as to only result in a loose fit.

As I mentioned earlier, I think you and I are in much the same boat, so I'll say...if you have a substantial accident, no pullup is going to get the job done. They're fine for minor stuff. Otherwise, you need the extra coverage and good standing leak guards. As well, something like the garywear...

In much the same situation. My accidents are not frequent, but they range from annoying underwear stain, to mess, to ruin-the-furniture disaster if I'm not diapered, and I have no way of telling which it could be, or when. Can't trust an impulse to pass wind, but never letting it happen gets a...

I wish someone had known and been kind enough to have me wear diapers in school, because just wetting your pants from stress incontinence is worse.

I had a problem with stress incontinence wetting well into my 20's when someone would make me laugh alot. One time in high school a friend got me laughing and I lost it and everyone saw. So now people knew it and would try and set me off, and often succeed. It wasn't as fun as it seems. Just...

So I went in to talk to my doctor this afternoon at the V.A. When we're done, she hands me my checkout sheet, and a big line says: "Incontinent of bowel x 1 year". It's like this big machine suddenly put a big label on me, officially making me a poopy-pants in the V.A.'s eyes. I'm thinking...

It's a bit amazing, I suppose, that after nearly 6 decades it still has the power to command my awareness, attention, and mood the way it does...even after discounting the sexuality angle.

I know, I'm sorry. I apologize for deleting it. That was unfair of me. My crap memory won't let me reconstruct it. Short version: Older guy, retired vet, have had dl/regression fantasies/paraphilia since early childhood, now having bowel urge incontinence issues and dealing with the...

A "why did I put all that out on the internet" moment...sigh.

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