MegaMax from Northshore or BetterDry also available from Northshore with a large booster pad or a couple inline down the center of the diaper is what I do.... Been doing this for a decade, but I use to use ComfiDry 24/7. Those are ok but they clump up.
I've never had an issue with the tapes. I get the diaper nice a snug/tight and they don'tove or pop off.... I never retape a diaper. I like that the MegaMax is one of a very very few or couple of diapers I don't need a roll of duct tape to hold them on.
Just woke up... A wet Abu space with two dignity booster pads. Still can take more wetting so I'll wear it for a while longer and change while running errands this morning.