When starting out I didn't like my abdl / babyfur side of me. However that started to change when I met my ex wife who tried to get me to except that side of me. After she left I just continued learning and making progress from there. I just am at the point now where I am unique and that's ok...
I can use mine for hours if I'm focusing on something like art or puzzles. Sucking on my pacifier helps me think and clear my head. Sometimes it's good to get a child like point of view lol.
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The urges come and go for me as well. Sometimes I wear 3-4 times a week and others 3-4 times a month. The binge and purge cycles where bad but now they don't effect me too bad because I know that the urges will come and go.
Was a abdl before joining the furry fandom. Once I found out about babyfurs and cubs I felt like I found the perfect community that has both furries and abdl's
I want/need them since regressing really helps with my stress. It always helps to come home from work and get padded up and unwind and watch cartoons or play games.
It dose take some time, I use to be slow at changing but with practice it gets quicker. You also get more practice finding out the right fit for your body, leaks are bad lol.