I like Northshore pull-ups a lot but honestly idk. If you're having serious #2 accidents it might just be smarter to go back for real diapers. It might suck but it might make more sense.
Just be careful. I've certainly nicked myself when I shave my penis, etc. Just have to take it slow and when it comes to diaper wearing after just don't mess and even then you'd probably be ok.
Snug, snug, snug. Tight enough to where it won't sag on me but not loose. But I have learned that I've been doing my bottom tapes too tight as after a few hours I start getting uncomfortable. Tykables with the Velcro tapes help a lot in that case.
Honestly ABU in general. I cycle through from Barebums, Preschools, Simples, etc. But I always find their quality rocks. Tykables is about the same for me.
I know I definitely tried these once but I honestly don't remember what I thought lol. It's been over a year. But I'm pretty sure I had a positive view.