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I'm no doctor, but my guess is a urinary tract infection. You should really see a doctor about this issue. I doubt you'll have to worry about a catheter. It doesn't sound like urinary retention. That would feel more like a constant ache or cramping. Actually, a lot of men with enlarged...

Hey! I'm not a DL, but my boyfriend is ABDL. I found out through one of our friends. It was really rough for him. It was a huge elephant in the room for us for a long time, but I just let him have his space. Eventually he owned up and told me to ask him any questions so that I wouldn't have to...

I don't have that, but! Dogboy, fun fact, that is a function of the thalamus, in the diencephalon of the brain. Your thalamus "filters out" the background noise and allows you to focus on one person talking in a crowded room. (Sorry. I just got excited. I had an exam on that this morning.) OP...

He didn't tell me actually. I found out through a mutual friend who is also an ABDL. It was hard on both of us, more so on him I think. But we came out stronger in the end. I absolutely panicked and started with Google. I found episodes of Dr. Phil and My Strange Addiction. Although the one on...

So you're thinking more on the financial side. I think that's a good start. I think it's going to be hard helping the homeless around the world from such a small startup though. What about something a little bit smaller than that, like a Christmas gift exchange? Similar to the programs that...

Hey! I'm a non-ABDL too! I just mostly lurk around here, trying to understand for my boyfriend, who is an ABDL! This community is so awesome about sharing what they know and being supportive of your relationship. I really applaud you both for being so open! It took a long time for my boyfriend...

My boyfriend has recently expressed that he wants to find ABDLs that live closer to him so that he can have someone to discuss these personal things with, since I'm not ABDL and I don't understand a lot of things. Does anyone know how we can find people close to us for him? He uses fetlife but...

Could that be the soap in it? That's weird! I once microwaved marshmallow cream with part of the seal still on top. It started on fire. I shouldn't be left home alone with access to the kitchen sometimes. I have a tendency to start toaster fires too. No idea why.

I do agree with Trisy that this is a more uncommon way to do it, but your way is probably a financially smarter way to do it. If you're saving up for your own home, and your parents support you living there, why not save your money and get to a good place in your life instead of investing your...

Hi Trisy! You bring up a good point. We have been discussing this actually. He works three jobs and goes to school full time. Some days, he will go to school in the morning, go to his evening job, go to his night shift job, and go straight to his morning job. Sometimes he will go two to three...

So my boyfriend has recently been more open about being an ABDL. I started listening to different podcasts as well as posting and lurking around here. He lives with his parents and can't really be open there, so I was thinking maybe I could help him be a little more open at my apartment. I do...

Hi DrunkBunny! I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. I don't have a lot of advice because I've never been in this situation. But you seem like you are mentally aware enough to refuse to be put in a mental institution. I highly doubt they can contain you if you haven't done anything...

1. I had a really hard time figuring out what kind of make up I liked/didn't like. It gets too expensive to really go out and buy everything just to sample. Have you heard of ipsy? It's a service that sends you make up every month for $10 that matches your coloring, style, and things you're most...

If it's a potential girlfriend, I would say wait. Develop a good, healthy, loving relationship first. I'm not an ABDL. Like my username says, I'm just the girlfriend of one, so feel free to ignore this. But from my side of things, I would have ran if my boyfriend had told me right away. I'm not...

That's so heartbreaking and absolutely terrifying. I will keep your family in my prayers.