I definitely suggest the One n Dones by Huggies. I found Target's store brand baby lotion to be rather soothing on the skin and has enough of the baby smell, so store brand isn't always a bad thing.
I'd suggest looking for a medical store close to you. Diapers sold in local retail stores won't hold, though Certainty briefs from Walgreens are respectable though plain on the outside.
Sometimes I wear them as pull ups and others I tear at the sides and use the tabs like a diaper. I've noticed no problems either way. I prefer my Dependecos in term of comfy but these diapers have kept me dry at night so can't complain about them.
Your using Certainty diapers too, zipperless? I tried pooping tonight (my stomach was upset so it didn't take much of a push) and it held okay. I don't do it often because I don't like it and my reason for wearing is because of my weak bladder.
I agree with rio, I've been using Dependeco PULs since March and can't say enough about them. Best sleep diapers I've ever wore, I don't even notice them and fall to sleep quickly.
I'd suggest a self-service Laundromat since you don't have access to a washer personally. Since you can't air dry, I strongly suggest you put them in the dryer on a low heat and don't overdo it.