Recent content by Benzie

I don't care for it personally, but I'm incontinent. My issues came with the possibility of suddenly having an issue at work, and sometimes wetting my jeans while on the clock (mostly the back). But, hey, nothing wrong if you like it. Sent from my Pixel using Tapatalk

It's also worth noting that your IQ changes with time, to a certain degree. It isn't a static value. Now, it's likely true that a person who is more mentally flexible and open to concepts like AB/DL related things would be on the upper end of the average IQ, but mental flexibility is often a...

Personally, I don't mess. I wear for urinal incontinence though, and plenty of people enjoy messing. A lot of the advice here seems really solid. Maybe if you're unsure, you could try taking some time and trying it before grabbing a shower? See how you react to it, and sit for a bit. Sent from...

That'll come with time, but honestly I'm not worried about it. I won't have much initial need for a car when I'm driving OTR with a sleeper cab in my tractor-trailer. Sent from my Pixel using Tapatalk

My mother does. I never disputed that, and I also never claimed that I didn't make a mistake by taking the car without talking to hee (I should note, I was supposed to take the car that morning, just not that far down). My issue is threatening to have me arrested. Had that happened, I would...

That's the thing about it, in most situations, it's my car. I was paying for half of it each month, and could've been paying it in full. She's told me from day one, that's my car, she just wants me to take care of it. The only time she tells me otherwise is when she's upset at me and holds it...

And, mind you, I didn't have any ability to leave on good terms with my employer. The way everything happened, I had to quit THAT day. Sent from my Pixel using Tapatalk

I quit because of my family. My grandfather, as horrible of a person as he is, was diagnosed with Colon Cancer. In his state of mind, he purchased a brand new truck and had no way to pay for it. My mother was generous enough to not only offer to take over the payments for this $70k truck, so she...

And by the way, I did admit that I made mistakes. I admitted to what I did wrong. My issue lies in my mother's tendency to explode in my face without warning, and how manipulative it feels that she comes around minutes after with an apology. Among other things that she's told me, she has: 1)...

Read my damned posts! I had a job and was ALREADY LIVING ON MY OWN. I moved back home and quit my job BECAUSE my mother asked me to. She needed help, I gave her help. Why do I not have a job? Because I'm at fucking Job Corps, I'm getting a CDL, after which I am guaranteed a job at Werner...

Here, I'll post it again for you: "So, to clarify: I had a steady job, in fact, I had already moved out on my own with some co-workers and was doing fine. I had planned to get funding from my local community Center to take a CDL course at a nearby community college. Before that, I took a year...

Like, did you not read the post I made about how up until I gave up my job at my FAMILY'S request, to help them, I was living on my own and pulling my own weight? Or, about how I do consistently help around the house, and even when there's nothing to do, I ask and badger constantly to make sure...

I feel like I explained myself pretty well here. I'm not taking advantage of my family. Sent from my Pixel using Tapatalk

Like I said, she's not a horrible person, and this isn't 24/7. I love my mother for a reason. It's just that this happens enough that it's difficult, something that I'm told one week, I get yelled at with seemingly no warning. Sent from my Pixel using Tapatalk

Oh, and I'll add that I was spending that time each day relaxing because my mother on MORE than one occasion has insisted my only focus should be my training. I'm taking an 8-12 CDL course from Job Corps. I get up at about 4:45 every morning to get dressed and drive down to where I get picked...