Boy what an interesting question. I'm an older, senior guy and have been wearing for about 7 years. I remember the first time I tried one and loved the feel, then had to pee so decided to let it go. OMG was almost orgasmic, I loved it and knew I was hooked. Been thru different phases and now have settled in to wearing one every night to bed so I can pee without getting up several times. I love that. In fact got up this AM and took my night time soaked diaper off and showered. Got dressed but wanted the feel of a diaper back on. Resisted the urge but there you go,,,,,,addicting.