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They give me the freedom to carry on with my life despite being incontinent.
For me it's a coping mechanism......plus I love it !!James1234 said:I'm in therapy since July, I figured out it's a security issue so I'm working on get myself calm by using my diapers as it's make me calm while my theropist work on me to fell my real self and eventually be secured
I'm still using and craving my ABDL side but I can feel it's starting to loosen up little by little
This is the same for me, I wear them because they are what I put on in the morning and before bed .. just my everyday normal attire.AlwaysInDiapers said:I don't think of it as "Liking" to wear them really. I have worn them so long it is just a natural thing. Every day when I get dressed it is just what I wear. I guess it is just the feeling I can be who I am and unless I want people to know it is just my secret. I love the feeling and couldn't imagine life any other way.
You’re story / ages etc is so like my experienceNapincolove said:For me it is a mixture of previous postings, have had a "thing" for plastic or rubber pants since my early childhood which then mushroomed out to include Nappies, was brought up in cloth Nappies and have one or two memories of that and rather surprisingly those memories are bad, cannot figure out why but I was hooked on both.!
As a youngster I had an incident where I had to hang on to a Bladder full and that really damaged me in some way and ever since have had the Bladder capacity of a Gnat making every trip out a toilet nightmare especially as public toilets are very few and far between making days out very uncomfortable if not intolerable.
Then at 40 years of age I started to wet the bed so did all the tests and tried all the different types of aid only to come back to Nappies as they are the only protection where I do not end up with infections.
Always dabbled with PP and cloth and when disposables came out I tried them but did not like them.
Still dabbled with PP and eventually my bladder problems led to full on ic and overtime Bowel ic to a degree.
Am now a happy full time wearer with the confidence and ability to go out and do everything an older person should do with or without Nappies and relish in the comfort and security they give me.
Sorry for the long winded explanation.
I'm slowly coming to terms with my need for nappies and I find that, in wearing them, apart from keeping me dry and saving me from embarrassment, they really calm me and offer me a sense of security.Davvyboy said:Why do we like wearing nappies as adults ?
After counselling I thought my desire to wear a nappy would naturally diminish when I found out the root cause.
But it never did.... and probably never will !
I'm glad really..... it is a wonderful attribute when you come to terms with it