Ok good question. Work days I found that haggar pleated front dress pants work best. Ok so this is going to sound weird but I have a few pairs of slim fit jeans that are stretch. Work awesome but I also wear a sweatshirt over so on one see the bulge. Sweats work great also.
as far as nighttime I will put plastic pants over my diaper. It holds it snug and provides extra protection against leaks. I really don’t wear pants or shirt. If I don’t use a cover I will wear a pair of shorts. Long story there but if I sleep I need to keep them covered in some way. Wifes rule.