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I'm profoundly IC. I only tell a very few friends. I've always been discreet, even with friends. I don't wave that IC flag. But I have this one friend and she finally knew that I'm IC. She said she knew that I wasn't using any bathroom. I was with a group of friends and was in a bar, eating dinner and having a few glasses of wine and beer. It went on for a couple of hours. And I never went to the bathroom. Apparently she looked at my crotch and later she whispered "your pants looked kind of different." I said, embarrassingly, "what do you mean?" She looked down at my pants and said "I'm not sure but they look different." Everyone finally left except me and her. I finally gave here a lift. During the drive she kept asking which made me uncomfortable. I have a few employees (2 of them) who know I'm IC. One I told and the other (a woman) figured it out. But both of them don't ask me anything personal. But this friend of mine wouldn't let it go. I know my diaper had come fairly wet but I didn't think it was obvious. She finally said that it looked like I was wearing a diaper. "What?" She said it looked like a diaper. I thought I'd die. She was doing it while laughing.
She wanted to go back to my house and have another glass of wine. So we did. I was hoping that she stopped asking me but no, she was insistent the whole time. You have to remember she's been a great friend for 5 years. We play tennis together and we cycle almost every weekend. I became comfortable with her and I never thought that she might have figured it out. After a couple more glasses she asked me again "are you wearing a diaper?" Then she sat closer and finally touched my crotch. She said I haven't gone to the bathroom the whole time. Touching my crotch turned my head away. I was so embarrassed. I think she knew I was so uncomfortable. She said that it was OK if I was wearing a diaper but she wondered why. So what do you do? The only thing I could do was tell her. So I did. I kept it simple. I have health issues but it doesn't stop me from doing anything I like. I was hoping that that would be the end of that. I drove her home and said I was sorry for not being more open. She said she was sorry for asking so many private questions. I guess that was the end of that. Hopefully.
What would you do when a good friends ask you about wearing a diaper? Most of the time I'm the one who tells them first. Then she got me stunned. I think I answered her question but I know she wants more. But I'm so private about that. It's personal. Do you have a better response? I'm sure she will see me next weekend when we go bicycling. And knowing her she will be asking me again. What would you do?
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She wanted to go back to my house and have another glass of wine. So we did. I was hoping that she stopped asking me but no, she was insistent the whole time. You have to remember she's been a great friend for 5 years. We play tennis together and we cycle almost every weekend. I became comfortable with her and I never thought that she might have figured it out. After a couple more glasses she asked me again "are you wearing a diaper?" Then she sat closer and finally touched my crotch. She said I haven't gone to the bathroom the whole time. Touching my crotch turned my head away. I was so embarrassed. I think she knew I was so uncomfortable. She said that it was OK if I was wearing a diaper but she wondered why. So what do you do? The only thing I could do was tell her. So I did. I kept it simple. I have health issues but it doesn't stop me from doing anything I like. I was hoping that that would be the end of that. I drove her home and said I was sorry for not being more open. She said she was sorry for asking so many private questions. I guess that was the end of that. Hopefully.
What would you do when a good friends ask you about wearing a diaper? Most of the time I'm the one who tells them first. Then she got me stunned. I think I answered her question but I know she wants more. But I'm so private about that. It's personal. Do you have a better response? I'm sure she will see me next weekend when we go bicycling. And knowing her she will be asking me again. What would you do?
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