Interesting thing is that my wife actually said this to me recently. Around Christmas we were driving I was stressing because I was having an accident. I was trying to prevent it, and told her I needed to pull into a parking lot and run in target. She saw how stressed I was, and she just said, “aren’t you wearing a diaper?”
I looked at her and acknowledged that, “of course I was.” The thing is I was trying not to use it in public. She just looked at me matter of factly and said, “just pee in your diaper. That ‘s why you wear them.” Like it was nothing to think twice about.
It honestly did calm me down, and I just let go. No leaks. The diaper did it’s thing and we kept driving. When we got to the next stop she just said, “Don’t forget to change your diaper in case you need to pee again.” As if it was a completely normal thing for a wife to tell her husband, lol.