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Today is Cyber Monday. I decided to go to my favorite online store and proceeded to make the single most insanely ridiculous binge/splurge I've had to date at one time.
My parts were so excited about what they will soon get but once the transaction went through, I suddenly felt sick and had a panic attack.
Thoughts like, "How could you do this?", "You can't afford this, wtf were you thinking?", "How stupid can you be?", "You should feel ashamed", "You should feel guilty for enjoying any of this that you just bought", "God is angry at you", "God is going to take your parts away from you because of this", "You went overboard and this is a problem and God is going to take your parts away", etc.
And I feel like bawling. I do want to feel free to enjoy these items even though I had no business doing what I did. I'm trying to move in the next year. I haven't touched my savings and am just paying what I can on the credit card.
I'm trying to get out of this town. Life is shaky and unstable and feels way out of control right now. Not that I can control every aspect of my life. Just feels so unstable. My emotions, my lack of routine in the big change that's happened in my world, and in trying not to break sobriety and keep clean from alcohol and drugs, I end up doing stuff like this...binging on stuff I don't need. It's like it's own high.
Has anyone else spun out of control in binging and regretted it? Had thoughts like this? If so, did you ever end up enjoying what you bought despite the splurge?
My parts were so excited about what they will soon get but once the transaction went through, I suddenly felt sick and had a panic attack.
Thoughts like, "How could you do this?", "You can't afford this, wtf were you thinking?", "How stupid can you be?", "You should feel ashamed", "You should feel guilty for enjoying any of this that you just bought", "God is angry at you", "God is going to take your parts away from you because of this", "You went overboard and this is a problem and God is going to take your parts away", etc.
And I feel like bawling. I do want to feel free to enjoy these items even though I had no business doing what I did. I'm trying to move in the next year. I haven't touched my savings and am just paying what I can on the credit card.
I'm trying to get out of this town. Life is shaky and unstable and feels way out of control right now. Not that I can control every aspect of my life. Just feels so unstable. My emotions, my lack of routine in the big change that's happened in my world, and in trying not to break sobriety and keep clean from alcohol and drugs, I end up doing stuff like this...binging on stuff I don't need. It's like it's own high.
Has anyone else spun out of control in binging and regretted it? Had thoughts like this? If so, did you ever end up enjoying what you bought despite the splurge?
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