Yes, i've found myself leaving hints to Yeet even if its in snapchats and having this forums in the background. Witch they picked up on, then we started talking about it more. I told yeeti wanna talk about it more, it makes me feel better and less stressed as im very worried about telling them.
It's great to hear its clearly working out really well for you, i've got a few questions for you man if you dont mind me asking
When did you tell her about it, how far into being with her ?
I told after only a couple dates, which looking back was really soon but somehow felt right in the moment. We had a fantastic connection from the very start so it seemed natural to just tell her right off the bat and not wait at all.
Do you wear around her?
Yes I do, around 3-4 nights a week or so. She encourages me to do it whenever I feel I need to, especially if I am sad or need comfort in any way.
Is she comfortable with it?
She does seem very comfortable with it, and I do check in with her about it. At first I think I was way more nervous than her but with time it has become more comfortable for both of us.
Has she tried it or have you asked her too?
She hasn't tried it yet but she has brought it up more and more lately. I think she is curious to try and wear one but has said in the past she is sure it is not her thing at all. Think it may happen eventually but I have no expectations at all either, happy if it happens and happy if it doesn't too.
None the less its great to hear its worked out really well for you mate!
Thanks for your support, this is the first relationship for me where it has worked this well. It has been super difficult for me in the past.
Thanks
but she seems to have realized as of last month that playing with my fetish = better sex. So she wants to try again and more seriously/consistently. So ... we'll see how it goes. Wish us luck!