Hi Bunny, it's me again.
Well, let's dissect it, then.
In the true sense of the meaning, a "diaper lover" should be someone who loves diapers. Now, that's still ambiguous and in some meanings far-fetched. "Love" can convey a lot things, w
ikipedia sums it up "
from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure".
I've talked (not personally, only electronically) to lots of "diaper lovers", but there wasn't one who really had deep romantic inter"personal" affection for their diapers. They get excited, they feel comforted, they wouldn't want to live without them in varying degrees.
You write you may call it a "liking". There's no clear boundary between liking and loving, indeed the french word "aimer" incorporates both. You are obviously a "diaper liker" (hence, a "DL" in any case!), but since there that term isn't commonly used and you seem to fulfill Wikipedia's threshold definitions of "good habit" or "simplest pleasure" for love, I would certainly include you in the fuzzy crowd of diaper lovers.
Agreed?
I guess there are lots on ADISC who would. Don't get me wrong, not me. I'm married and possibly too old for you. But I assure you that a little bedwetting is not a deal-breaker for lots of people.
Admittedly, it's a lot more difficult for introverts to find someone because they usually hide in their den, but I know prcedents. Some day you probably will, too.