SophiaNuw
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I have no clue how to send PMs, but thanks for the offer.RandomABDL said:Since it is your first time, step back for a minute and breathe. Most of us have gone through a binge and purge cycle and it is easy to end up there and usually not helpful.
From a Christian point of view it is not straight forward. Diapers themselves are an "object" with a "end purpose". They themselves are not inherently sinful but a practical object with a purpose.
However, if wearing them is only for sexual purposes then it would be sinful outside of a marriage (per Christian teaching). But within a marriage if part of you and your spouses sexual activity it would likley be fine.
Only you can make these determinations in your motivation. But I would challenge with this. Is it really just sexual or so new it arouses you? Could it be comforting?
You said you did not feel safe. I would explore that emotion and see if there is any link to previous stress or trauma. If so speaking with a therapist or confidant might be worth it. If not then ask where and why you did not feel safe.
Also the Catholic catechism has a concept of "inordinate attachment" that comes from the early church. It could be that previous conditioning has created an emotional or pscological attachment worth thinking about it.
But slow down a bit and pray about it. I would be happy to tell you how I reconciled it but that may not be helpful to you if your motivations and intent are differant than mine. But wearing a diaper is not objectively sinful.
Remember the Christian God is a God of grace. Some struggle is expected. But stepping back and asking the question is a good start.
Feel free to PM me if you wish to talk it through with somebody.
I guess you're right that i'm quite hasty in my conclusion, and that it might be healthy to step back and take a breather.
But yeah, my biggest issue is definitely the thing about it feeling wrong to practice something sexual outside of marriage.
I just don't want diapers to become a part of my life that takes up more space than it needs to. I feel that if i start pursuing this fetish, that it won't bring me anything meaningful and it will just bring me further from god.