A lot of people here are
taking offence to the truth, and in my humble opinion, at a cost to themselves. Some here are playing at being a moderator/parent/supervisor/boss by telling others what they should or should not post. This forum is all about rational disscussion, and is in no way dictorial. As a result, no one persons opinion is worth more than anothers - AND no person, bar the actual moderation team, has the right and/or authority to tell another what to do, even if they disagree with what the other person is saying.
The rights and ability of free speech protects ALL speech - including the speech one might find offensive.
So, although you might disagree with what I post, that is your free choice, it in no way gives you, or another (bar the moderation team), the right or authority to prevent me from posting.
*Offence is taken, not given, so in reality, due to simple mathematics, it is not possible to post without at least one person taking offence. Millions gave their lives worldwide to ensure everyone in the world has these simple rights, and I will continue that fight forever to ensure those rights exist.
Peremptory Facts
- Urine is odourous - it offends others.
- Poop is odourous - it offends others.
- Human skin is porus/absorbs liquid = urine and poop gets partially absorbed into skin.
- The human mind accepts / ignores what is familliar as it percieves it not to be a threat = one becomes nose-blind.
This all means that when one is peeing and/or pooping into diapers, the smell gets into ones skin and the person wearing the diaper becomes nose blind to their own smells. A baby is bathed on a daily basis - to avoid that issue, but society accepts that a baby, at times, can stink - and expects its mother/career to address that issue. Some babies/children are coated in scented oil / powder / lotion as a way to arrest the stink, but these type of baby-scents from an adult are usually not welcome.
Society expects, which is not unreasonable, that an adult does not offend others with the stink of their excretement nor with the overpowering stink of perfumes etc. Some here can attest to the people who one would presume soakes in perfume/aftershave due too the fog of aroma left as they pass you. This was/is an issue with some smokers, as the smoking can dull their sence of smell. They can also reek of stale partially burnt tobacco. A diaper dependant person can also leave similar fog of aroma - noseblindness means that person is unaware of the stink.
Simply, without constant dilligence and the
unbiased truth from those around us, it only takes a matter of time before we stink too bad to appear in public, similar to the people who 'bathe in aftershave/perfume'. The unbiased truth needs our friends and partners to tell us when we stink, as to do otherwise is lying to us.
In relation to lying to 'just be kind', that is cowerdice and/or fear, and is no help to us in any form. Courtiers and/or someone in a subservient position commonly, out of fear and/or self preservation, will not tell the truth to the King/Queen/Boss. This behaviour of deceipt / lying by omission has become common in society
i.e. saying to an obese partner, that dress/skirt/pants does not make you look fat OR saying to another, that haircut / clothes takes years off you, when most of the time one is thinking the opposite. We might think that we are being kind / caring to that person as an excuse for the lie, but we are still lying / decieving another for self gain.
In relation to the odour being identified, it needs constant work - which includes all of the following plus plus. There is ways to limit the smell, but due to the constant additions, no way to remove it forever, despite what others tell us.
- internal deodorants
- controlled diet
- plastic pants
- fine attention to hygine - including showering numerous times daily plus regular bathing.
- hair removal may be an option, but that alone is not the solution due to the makeup of human skin and hair growth.
- barrier cream - like vaseline or any cream that blocks liquid entering skin pores.
... and what is most important, as soon as you notice that your diaper is soiled, one changes out of same and washes the area using soap and warm water. This is what most parents do when their baby poops their diapers - using wipes, cleans the area well, reapplies a barrier cream and then a fresh diaper, and when convenient, bathes the baby in warm soapy water.
