DLfuunseeker
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You are very lucky, I am happy for youEllyn said:Being that I don’t post a whole lot here, most here probably don’t know my history. Let me summarize…
I’ve been incontinent all of my life due to what was eventually diagnosed as birth defects, and now added effects of MS. My childhood was anything but happy as I was harassed and shunned by most. I was physically and emotionally punished regularly by my mother for my inability to control my bladder up until my early teens, when the diagnosis was made. To say I was reclusive and withdrawn is an understatement up until I was awarded a full scholarship to a university well away from home and all that knew me.
Once established in my new life there, I dated several guys but kept my incontinence very private. Eventually, I met the man that would later become my husband in a church singles group. We dated for a year or longer and once I realized that we were developing a serious relationship, I shared my health issues and childhood history, pleaded with him to maintain my privacy. If anything, my sharing with him drew us so much closer. Eventually, we transitioned into an intimate relationship and learned how to deal with my incontinence while being intimate.
My relationship with this man drew me out of my shell and tore down all walls that I had built to the point where I was the happiest that I’ve ever been. After we graduated college, we soon married and started a business together and eventually a family.
i firmly believe that there’s the right life mate out there for everyone. Faith and a positive outlook are -very- important. If your walls that protect you are too high and too strong, possibilities are severely limited! Don’t allow incontinence to affect your happiness!