Connecting with other abdls?

[KryanAshford]

How would you go about connecting and talking to more abdls. I'm part of several discords and I'm on fetlife, but I don't get much in the way of connections. I also have a twitter for my ABDL side but haven't done too much with it, but if you want to follow I can always post a link. Is there other ways to talk to other abdls. Meetings seem like a low shot what with the situation and my location so any other suggestions would be nice

 

[LittleScotty]

This is the only place I connect with other ABDL's so I can't recommend anywhere. I'm not on any other of the platforms you mentioned. I'm always happy to talk to others. It's only the last year since I joined this forum that I have discussed anything ABDL with anyone at all after keeping it hidden and to myself for so long

 

[neophyte]

My response is similar to @LittleScotty - ADISC is the only place that allows me to interact with other ABDLs.

I do visit reddit once in a while, which is pretty mature and clean community. https://www.reddit.com/r/ABDL/

I did create a fetlife account. There is a small group of people in my area on fetlife but I have come to the decision to not use fetlite or meet anyone; even if it's just to "shoot pool" or "have coffee"; the premise of fetlife is sexual, and for me ABDL is a lifestyle/security/comfort thing. For all I know "shoot pool" means something other than billiards.


The best answer is attending an ABDL munch, once COVID-19 calms down.

Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop, the organizer usually reserving a large table, a back area, or a private room. People are free to arrive and leave within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, although some munches also have announcements or demonstrations from local organizations or individuals. Munches are meant to help those who are curious about BDSM meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed

 

[LilMichy]

How would you go about connecting and talking to more abdls. I'm part of several discords and I'm on fetlife, but I don't get much in the way of connections. I also have a twitter for my ABDL side but haven't done too much with it, but if you want to follow I can always post a link. Is there other ways to talk to other abdls. Meetings seem like a low shot what with the situation and my location so any other suggestions would be nice

Good luck trying to figure this out! This is all new to me so this is the only place I've talked with anyone about it. I've had a couple conversations now, and it makes me sooo happy to finally talk to someone. I would like to think some of my goals are similar to yours in that I just want to meet people that understand and still appreciate me, abdl and awkwardness and all.

Fetlife seems intimidating, and while it sounds like a lot of people do have success, I still need more confidence. I've only just started anonymously telling my story, and I think I'd be too scared right now, but I think maybe that's where I'd like to get to. I just need to keep trying to grow myself and maybe ill get there quicker than I could hope......maybe.

I understand the separation of littlespace and sex, and I'm with a lot of others on this site that it's not sexual for me at all when im in littlespace. I still have other sexual interests though completely outside of littlespace that is neglected simply because I'm too scared of what people think about other aspects of me being am abdl. In addition, it seems like a lot of abdl/littles have other similar sexual interests as well. So could fetlife be a bad thing? I dont know. I think I would like to try, but I just dont think I'm quite ready. I dont know, I'm confusing myself here now.

 

[KittyMerriweather]

There is a fairly active chatroom on dailydiapers

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

If I get my own place in Kentucky, I'll have to 'hostess' a housewarming dinner-and-a-movie party/sleepover for area AB/DLs, just so we can hang out. Bibs encouraged, BYOBB&B (bring your own baby bottle & bear )!

 

[Aby]

fetlife is not a bad place to find out about munches, which hopefully we can start having again soon. I was so nervous during my first munch but I had a friend I know there and that helped a lot.

 

[DL0202]

Not much in ND. Was warmer here then Texas was today

 

[BAP21]

My advice is to start going munches in your area. Then eventually, get to a convention. Obviously once this pandemic is over. I know it's tough as it can be very nerve wracking the first time and may cost quite a bit but believe me, it'll be life changing. Ever since my 1st con back in 2018 I've met a bunch of other abdl's and many becoming very good friends.

 

[KittyMerriweather]

I used to be on a site called Diaper mates . It is a shady pay for play site as I paid the one time fee; but was never upgraded to their premium benefits. There is also some things on that site that are rather "Cringeworthy" to say the least. I will not go back to it.

That is why people are going to dailydiapers now.

Going places is not an option. There is a very active chatroom at dialydiapers. That is the best option right now.

 

[PurplePup89]

DailyDiapers is active, but it's very sexual. That's what eventually turned me off of that site entirely; I get that it's for a "fetish", but compared to ADISC, there's far less community and far more exhibitionism. I got so many sexually explicit DMs in that chatroom, and I don't ever really recall asking for any. Just a word of warning, but if that's what you're into, then obviously go for it.

 

[KittyMerriweather]

DailyDiapers is active, but it's very sexual. That's what eventually turned me off of that site entirely; I get that it's for a "fetish", but compared to ADISC, there's far less community and far more exhibitionism. I got so many sexually explicit DMs in that chatroom, and I don't ever really recall asking for any. Just a word of warning, but if that's what you're into, then obviously go for it.

I have the exact opposite experience. Maybe because I set them straight right up front. PM is open for chat only, NO RP!! Never once had someone get sexual with me there.

 

[LilMichy]

DailyDiapers is active, but it's very sexual. That's what eventually turned me off of that site entirely; I get that it's for a "fetish", but compared to ADISC, there's far less community and far more exhibitionism. I got so many sexually explicit DMs in that chatroom, and I don't ever really recall asking for any. Just a word of warning, but if that's what you're into, then obviously go for it.

Thanks for the info. I just simply strolled over there earlier and it even has almost a porn site feel. Not that im not opposed to certain things completely, as I think many abls are into similar things OUTSIDE of littlespace such as sub/dom (and my goal is to eventually meet some people.....evenetually. But for the true little space, for me anyway, making it all sexual would be a turn off. jus imo neway, everones different!!!

 

[LilMichy]

I have the exact opposite experience. Maybe because I set them straight right up front. PM is open for chat only, NO RP!! Never once had someone get sexual with me there.

Also good to know if i decide to sign up. Thanks!

 

[KittyMerriweather]

Also good to know if i decide to sign up. Thanks!

Look me up. I will follow.

 

[PrincessAugust]

I use discord and the various ABDL servers

 

[chamberpot]

I was able to meet another DL one time that I met here on ADSIC at a neutral public place, was a very good time , great to be able to actually speak to someone of like mind.. you have to use caution for sure. interact on here .

 

[Lonelydl]

I use discord and the various ABDL servers

I have discord but dont know of any abdl servers

 

[LilMichy]

I have discord but dont know of any abdl servers

Same....haha. Im pretty new to discod so Ive only joined adiscs so far, but im trying to actually embrace who i am for once and be an active member in the community.