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I'm not incontinent - yet.
It's not something that I'm attempting to do by any means, but it's apparently fairly common in AFAB folks.
And I'm starting to run into some legitimate trouble from time to time. I'm only in my early 30's and already have "I just barely made it and still missed some" on a weekly basis. There's many times where my body doesn't tell me that I have to go until I'm ready to burst, every 1-2 days.
There was a while where I ended up having full on accidents at work fairly regularly. (For some reason, going into the big deep freezer seemed to be a trigger? Took me a while to figure that one out and to be honest, and I still don't get it lol) It was almost once a week at one point, and it was the "go home and get changed" kind of accident. Thankfully, I worked overnight with hardly anyone else in the store. I had also accidentally purchased incontinence pads instead of period pads the last time I needed some, so I started wearing those after the second time it happened lol
At the time, I was married to someone who I would NEVER tell my secret to. I don't think I ever told him about the incontinence issues from the sheer embarrassment and slight judgement I'd get from it.
I work from home now and make my own schedule, so it's far less likely to happen than back then, but some periods of time are worse than others.
(For years there have been times where I feel like I constantly need to go and a shower would help. I realize now that it's because it's no big deal if I pee in the shower and it helps put my mind at ease. Diapers/incontinence pads have helped alleviate that problem like I never imagined! It's still really embarrassing for me, but the sheer amount of relief where I stop worrying about it and just.... Get on with my life is usually enough to get my bladder to empty completely.)
So yeah, I guess the AB came first and then I started having issues a few years down the line when I hadn't had more than a precursory opportunity to explore that side of me. The ABDL and IC are still really separate in my mind because one is for relaxing/stress relief/fun and the other is the complete opposite of that lmao
Also, I truly apologize if this is TMI or if it seems like I'm making light of a medical condition that I do not have/have not been diagnosed with. While my experience is currently extremely manageable without adaptive equipment (aside from the extra laundry,) I don't think that this will always be the case.
This is also the first time I've ever been able to talk openly about the problems that I do have and I appreciate that opportunity greatly.
It's not something that I'm attempting to do by any means, but it's apparently fairly common in AFAB folks.
And I'm starting to run into some legitimate trouble from time to time. I'm only in my early 30's and already have "I just barely made it and still missed some" on a weekly basis. There's many times where my body doesn't tell me that I have to go until I'm ready to burst, every 1-2 days.
There was a while where I ended up having full on accidents at work fairly regularly. (For some reason, going into the big deep freezer seemed to be a trigger? Took me a while to figure that one out and to be honest, and I still don't get it lol) It was almost once a week at one point, and it was the "go home and get changed" kind of accident. Thankfully, I worked overnight with hardly anyone else in the store. I had also accidentally purchased incontinence pads instead of period pads the last time I needed some, so I started wearing those after the second time it happened lol
At the time, I was married to someone who I would NEVER tell my secret to. I don't think I ever told him about the incontinence issues from the sheer embarrassment and slight judgement I'd get from it.
I work from home now and make my own schedule, so it's far less likely to happen than back then, but some periods of time are worse than others.
(For years there have been times where I feel like I constantly need to go and a shower would help. I realize now that it's because it's no big deal if I pee in the shower and it helps put my mind at ease. Diapers/incontinence pads have helped alleviate that problem like I never imagined! It's still really embarrassing for me, but the sheer amount of relief where I stop worrying about it and just.... Get on with my life is usually enough to get my bladder to empty completely.)
So yeah, I guess the AB came first and then I started having issues a few years down the line when I hadn't had more than a precursory opportunity to explore that side of me. The ABDL and IC are still really separate in my mind because one is for relaxing/stress relief/fun and the other is the complete opposite of that lmao
Also, I truly apologize if this is TMI or if it seems like I'm making light of a medical condition that I do not have/have not been diagnosed with. While my experience is currently extremely manageable without adaptive equipment (aside from the extra laundry,) I don't think that this will always be the case.
This is also the first time I've ever been able to talk openly about the problems that I do have and I appreciate that opportunity greatly.
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