mammalun
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I'm confused. I personally have no issue at all with the whole sissy thing. But I was reading some discussions on fetlife and was amazed at the, well, outright hatred some women were displaying towards it. On the basis that it is misogynistic (and by implication all sissies must be horrible). And it got me thinking - am I a really weird female (OK I actually consider myself gender fluid but bear with me here as I was kind of in female mode at the time) for not understanding these other women's abject hatred for the kink? So I thought I'd pose my question on here, because you lot are generally much more respectful.
Their basic argument was that sissy equates to humiliation and you can only be humiliated by being a sissy if you think that women are somehow lesser to men. But, well, the sissies I know are unbelievably respectful towards women. Way more than many vanilla types I know. Yes it's about humiliation but surely it is more about doing something others view of as inappropriate or against societal norms? Many of these women were "I'm OK with crossdressers but sissies... hard no". I don't actually understand that attitude. It sounds a bit like the "I'm not racist but..." to me. Do you sissies come up against this kind of "you must all really hate women" thing? And I wonder if those of us with the opposite "tomboy" type thing would get the same reaction? (I kind of know the answer there, I have been a rather tomboyish girl for my whole life - tomboys are more social acceptable and actually easier to blend in with vanilla world).
Anyway, I was curious to what you all think of this.
Their basic argument was that sissy equates to humiliation and you can only be humiliated by being a sissy if you think that women are somehow lesser to men. But, well, the sissies I know are unbelievably respectful towards women. Way more than many vanilla types I know. Yes it's about humiliation but surely it is more about doing something others view of as inappropriate or against societal norms? Many of these women were "I'm OK with crossdressers but sissies... hard no". I don't actually understand that attitude. It sounds a bit like the "I'm not racist but..." to me. Do you sissies come up against this kind of "you must all really hate women" thing? And I wonder if those of us with the opposite "tomboy" type thing would get the same reaction? (I kind of know the answer there, I have been a rather tomboyish girl for my whole life - tomboys are more social acceptable and actually easier to blend in with vanilla world).
Anyway, I was curious to what you all think of this.