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The best, most likely explanation by far that I have seen in 70 years is that it is an imprinted phenomenon, just like heterosexuality, homosexuality, and nearly all the things we call fetishes, sexual or nonsexual. Imprinting in humans is believed to take place before the age of 8, but, like...

You had no choice. These desires were deeply implanted in your brain at an early age by the same process responsible for nearly everyone's intense, lifelong desires, normal as well as abnormal. Your only choice right now is to act on it or don't act on it. Either way, the desires won't go away...

I never liked discussions about free will. If we have free will then my belief that I have free will would be correct. If we don't have free will then I have no choice but to believe I have free will, just like people without free will who believe they don't have free will. Their belief is not...

You would need some kind of proof to win a libel case. I doubt you will be able to find any.

Despite the fact that there is an observable phenomenon responsible for things like ABDL desires and behaviors, few people, including those in the so called ABDL community, know about it or believe it or care about it. And for some reason it seems that most people, including some ABDLs, find it...

It's unlikely people are 'born with' strong attachments to specific things and behaviors that have no actual evolutionary value. However, it makes perfect sense that people and other animals have evolved a process that helps them adjust to the things and conditions that were present in the...

For probably more than a thousand years now, some people have had a pretty good idea of what causes strange attractions such as these. Animals go through a natural process in their early development that causes them to form lifelong, emotional attachments to various things from their...

Very few people understand the science behind the things we call fetishes (I'm using that term in a broader sense to include most abnormal desires, not just the sexually related ones). The difference between normal and abnormal desires is purely a social distinction. Hopefully the relatively new...

In cases where young ladies wearing short skirts occasionally expose their underwear, it is sometimes the males that viewed the sight that are judged to be behaving unacceptably because of what they were looking at. This judgement happens despite the fact that there is no way to determine if the...

It should be obvious by now that, if you are looking for a psychological cause for your intense love of diapers, no matter what experiences you had in childhood you can claim them as 'the cause'. No matter if your early exposure to diapers was traumatic, loving, comforting, or completely...

A lot of people think they have the answer to why many men are romantically and sexually attracted to young women with cute faces and cute butts, but many of them can't understand why men would be attracted in the same way to young men with similar attributes. They think there is some kind of...

When you think about it, most guys don't find most girls hot; only the girls with certain features specific to their desires, which vary with the individual guy. Same with girls finding certain guys hot. Few people know why this occurs.

I agree that the exact situation that leads to a lifelong attraction to diapers may never be known. But the process that causes these things has been researched well enough that the scientific community no longer looks at these things as evidence of mental illness. Most people today still search...

This question keeps coming up and my answer is always the same: it is the result of the same natural process everyone goes through that assigns everyone the social/sexual attachments they will most likely have for the rest of their lives. The process, known as imprinting, is not a psychological...

As I understand it, the books in the modern versions of the bible were compiled by order of a Roman emperor for political reasons. From what I've read, that emperor maintained his belief in Roman gods even after he authorized the Catholic bible, which all modern versions are based on. Many...