Recent content by depends4me

If it's difficult to tape the diaper properly, err, you might want to take care of business first. :) Over time, as diapers become less exotic, the problem should diminish.

I went 24/7/365 over 4 years ago and wonder now why I waited so long. Previously I'd done 24/7 stretches in diapers for a few months at a time, but was always looking forward to the next stretch. What held me back? You can probably guess: work, the expense, and my practical side telling me it...

Nylon underwear was still common into the mid-90's depending on where you shopped. I used to buy 3-packs, solid colors and printed, at Jamesway and Montgomery Ward. I am diapered 24/7 today so don't have any contemporary advice, but would be surprised if it's disappeared completely. Worst case...

Some people get cranky when they need changed, lol. A week ago my boyfriend was visiting and suggested a trip down to ABU's office outside Baltimore. This was on a Sunday. We arrive and are literally greeted at the door. Two guys in their 20's are handling the retail side, and being new there...

Great poll! When you think all questions have already been asked... Lol. I am a 24/7 DL and started wearing roughly 20 years ago. The 24/7 started around 3 years ago. I found that it was necessary to untrain myself in each position/activity, one at a time. The only box I didn't check was...

I'm trying dude, I'm trying. I saw your other thread about whether your friends know you're IC. Perhaps you should start with one of them. The next time you need to make an awkward exit (I expect it's happened...I'm a DL and it's happened to me), either before or after, pause and ask, "you know...

I think the best protection depends on the exercise. If I go running for 45 minutes, it will be a thin pullup under compression shorts. For longer hikes, I would wear something thicker, probably cloth backed in the summer. I've had pullups fail while doing sit-ups/stomach crunches, so that...

I am ABDL and so can't quite identify with your situation, but would you're feel the same way going to lunch, going to a movie, etc. with one or more new male friends? I am guessing not. So maybe try telling yourself that it's not a date. Instead of the stereotypical Friday night dinner and a...

The first song that came to mind is Her Fifteen Years, by the 90's band Gene. Too obvious?

I've had lots of diaper sightings over the years, but none recently. Either I've gotten too busy, am not casually browsing at stores as much due to Covid, or the novelty of sightings has just worn off. All my old sightings are somewhere on the board. What I wanted to mention is a 20-something...

My mother passed away very unexpectedly at the end of March 2021. It was from cancer, which she didn't know she had. Dad had a stroke in summer 2018 and can't live on his own, so my sister and I were back living in our childhood home. I'm now there permanently. I started hearing things in...

Nothing as dramatic as the other posts, but I've now been wearing 24/7 for a bit over 3 years. The time between feeling a bladder contraction and releasing (or just not holding) is often 2 or 3 seconds. But maybe 5% of the time it happens so fast that these should qualify as accidents. Since I...

Paddles help a bit. 😈

Welcome aboard. It took me a couple attempts to go 24/7 permanently, and I've now been in diapers for about 3 years. Wish I'd done it 10 years ago. I had a look at some of your old posts, and assuming you're still a paramedic, you're okay with all the bending and stretching around other people...

Originally (after trimming the bulk with scissors) I used a 3-blade cartridge that had become too dull for my face, with decent quality shaving gel. At some point I migrated from Dollar Shave Club to Bic disposables (!) and now use a 4-blade for my face and a 3-blade for my diaper area and the...