maxpitchup
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Hello all,
I've been in my relationship with my gf for 2 years now. I told her about my abdl side about 6 months into dating. We are very much in love and everything is leading to us being together for the long haul. The only big hurdle still in our relationship is that she is still a little uncomfortable with me in diapers. She feels awkward and feels like she loses me and moments in our relationship when I wear and sometimes sink into more of a baby headspace. I wear to bed once or twice a week and she is ok with it, but doesn't love it. And she diapers me and let's me embrace my little side about once a month. She doesn't prefer it, but she is willing to put in the work to make this relationship work. She has her boundaries and I respect them. We've talked about it plenty of times before and she wants to be with me and wants this relationship to work. She is willing to stay with me if we can get to a place where she is perfectly ok with me wearing and acting normal and can be confident that it won't interfere with our lives. She doesn't like me falling into my little headspace and she doesn't want to be my mommy all the time. And thats ok with me. I want a grown up relationship as well and would just like those random nights every once in a while for me to be in that headspace and embrace my little side and abdl. My question is how do I help her get to the point of being comfortable with this part of me and knock out this last big hurdle in our relationship so we can finally move on and just start our life together? What can I do to desensitize her from abdl because it is daunting to her sometimes? What helped you and your significant other? Any and all ideas are welcome. Thanks!
I've been in my relationship with my gf for 2 years now. I told her about my abdl side about 6 months into dating. We are very much in love and everything is leading to us being together for the long haul. The only big hurdle still in our relationship is that she is still a little uncomfortable with me in diapers. She feels awkward and feels like she loses me and moments in our relationship when I wear and sometimes sink into more of a baby headspace. I wear to bed once or twice a week and she is ok with it, but doesn't love it. And she diapers me and let's me embrace my little side about once a month. She doesn't prefer it, but she is willing to put in the work to make this relationship work. She has her boundaries and I respect them. We've talked about it plenty of times before and she wants to be with me and wants this relationship to work. She is willing to stay with me if we can get to a place where she is perfectly ok with me wearing and acting normal and can be confident that it won't interfere with our lives. She doesn't like me falling into my little headspace and she doesn't want to be my mommy all the time. And thats ok with me. I want a grown up relationship as well and would just like those random nights every once in a while for me to be in that headspace and embrace my little side and abdl. My question is how do I help her get to the point of being comfortable with this part of me and knock out this last big hurdle in our relationship so we can finally move on and just start our life together? What can I do to desensitize her from abdl because it is daunting to her sometimes? What helped you and your significant other? Any and all ideas are welcome. Thanks!