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Although it was quite a common question when I was a teenager, I think I've only ever been asked the question as an adult on two occasions. I have nearly always answered "No" when challenged, but I do remember occasionally admitting it when the question was asked in a more caring way.
In the care home, some helpers were more likely to be angry when asking. Things like "Have you shit your pants" would almost certainly meet with denial. "Did you have an accident", however, would be far more likely to get a nod of the head or a tearful admission of guilt. If asked "Do you need the toilet" I'd always say no.
If you were accused, what words were used? Did you always deny it or were you honest? I guess if punishment was the norm, then the former would have been more likely. If you denied it, would you then quietly change and hide the evidence to avoid getting caught?
What about as an adult? Would you admit it when asked these days?
In the care home, some helpers were more likely to be angry when asking. Things like "Have you shit your pants" would almost certainly meet with denial. "Did you have an accident", however, would be far more likely to get a nod of the head or a tearful admission of guilt. If asked "Do you need the toilet" I'd always say no.
If you were accused, what words were used? Did you always deny it or were you honest? I guess if punishment was the norm, then the former would have been more likely. If you denied it, would you then quietly change and hide the evidence to avoid getting caught?
What about as an adult? Would you admit it when asked these days?