sleepylion
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Hi!
I’ll start this off by saying that this forum has been a very insightful place for my own journey. However, now I’m at a place where I can’t find discussions on this topic. So here I am writing my first discussion!
So, I have been talking to a mommy now for a couple of months. We live in different cities so it could be considered as ldr. This is type of relationship is totally new to me and compared to her I’m a newbie in this community
We have been getting to know each other and what are we looking for in this type of relationship. It has been very nice and she has expressed healthy boundaries! However, sometimes I get these second thoughts and they destroy the flow. Like I’m doubting myself and thinking what am I doing. Does anyone else have these type of thoughts? Any tips on how to prevent them?
Also, we had our first phone call and I honestly didn’t know what to expect. I didn’t know if we were going to talk about “adult stuff” or if she was going to read some stories to me. It went really well, we talked about our says first and then she asked if I wanted her to read some stories and ofc I said yes This was a totally new experience for me and it put me right in little space. It was very relaxing. I have never fallen so fast into it, especially when another person is present. I must admit I was an extremely shy, I said only few words but thanked her for reading me. Like a good little does
However, now my head is going around with all the irrational thoughts about what if she doesn’t like me, what did she think about the call? Should I act differently? Am I filling her needs as well? Is my little really safe around her?
And because of this I’m scared to send her a good morning text and asking if she would like to read some stories again
So perhaps the purpose of this is to get some support and tips to how to move forward. As I mentioned before, how do people with these two sided feelings? How do people develop these relationships? Do they just take time, honest communication?
(This is my first time posting here, so if this ends up to a wrong place or is somewhat inappropriate, feel free to delete this!)
I’ll start this off by saying that this forum has been a very insightful place for my own journey. However, now I’m at a place where I can’t find discussions on this topic. So here I am writing my first discussion!
So, I have been talking to a mommy now for a couple of months. We live in different cities so it could be considered as ldr. This is type of relationship is totally new to me and compared to her I’m a newbie in this community
We have been getting to know each other and what are we looking for in this type of relationship. It has been very nice and she has expressed healthy boundaries! However, sometimes I get these second thoughts and they destroy the flow. Like I’m doubting myself and thinking what am I doing. Does anyone else have these type of thoughts? Any tips on how to prevent them?
Also, we had our first phone call and I honestly didn’t know what to expect. I didn’t know if we were going to talk about “adult stuff” or if she was going to read some stories to me. It went really well, we talked about our says first and then she asked if I wanted her to read some stories and ofc I said yes This was a totally new experience for me and it put me right in little space. It was very relaxing. I have never fallen so fast into it, especially when another person is present. I must admit I was an extremely shy, I said only few words but thanked her for reading me. Like a good little does
However, now my head is going around with all the irrational thoughts about what if she doesn’t like me, what did she think about the call? Should I act differently? Am I filling her needs as well? Is my little really safe around her?
And because of this I’m scared to send her a good morning text and asking if she would like to read some stories again
So perhaps the purpose of this is to get some support and tips to how to move forward. As I mentioned before, how do people with these two sided feelings? How do people develop these relationships? Do they just take time, honest communication?
(This is my first time posting here, so if this ends up to a wrong place or is somewhat inappropriate, feel free to delete this!)