Tulip247 said:
Which diaper is best of office in the summer? I'm looking to start to ware them. Thank you in advance
You have listed yourself as incontinent as well as everything else, but then say you are thinking of starting to wear diapers and want advise. You mentioned in another post you have thought about wearing diapers but do not know if you could. I do not mean no disrespect but your profile confuses me. I would think as a incontinent person you would have some experience with diapers or pull ups and have to use some kind of protection daily. But As a incontinent AB,DL you should had certainly tried diapers. Incontinence implies your bladder leak's, or empties without control and is reserved for people that have a medical condition that forces them to wear diapers or pads.
Like for real I mean no disrespect you are welcome to be your real self here without judgement. So if you are new to the ABDL lifestyle and diapers I and everyone else here is more than willing to give you advise. It just is confusing to understand a real since of who you are and why you are here when your profile and post are giving mixed signals.
If I a way off my apology. Letting us know what experience you have with diapers and how you now manage incontinence will help us to make recommendations on what products you should try. The real secrete to wearing in public is to wear loose relax fit clothing. I wear relax fit jeans 2 sizes bigger in my waste but I use a braided elastic belt to hold the up so my diaper does not show. The belt is made from small braided bungy cords about the size of paracord and walmart sells them for ten bucks. Then I wear a untucked shirt 1size larger and I can wear about any brand and size diaper I want. My preferred band is NS Mega Max, these ae a heavy duty diaper that hold a lot. They are plastic back and they have a plastic landing strip that the tapes close on too. This makes them stay on tight and snug with out the tabs coming loose causing sagging no matter how active you are. Some diapers really suck at staying on snug and a loss fit diaper is a leak waiting to happen. But it truly depends on why you wear and how often you are using the diaper. If it is for just incase and most the time you use the toilet then I would recommend a lighter duty diaper. But your clothing choice is the biggest way to hide a diaper.
my attuited is I do not have a choice in the matter. My bladder and my colon empty on their own terms so I do the same thing any one else with the same condition would do. i wear a diaper, I can't just let it run down my leg. In 30 yeas of using diapers I found out the only one interested in my underwear choice is me. People that do not wear diapers never are thinking bout them and they never wonder if the guy inline in front of them might be wearing a diaper. Most are to busy looking at their phone to care what is going on around them anyway.
Welcome To ADISC I hope I did not scare you off. I just have found a lot of new members will list incontinent out of fear of judgement for liking diapers. But know one here is going to judge you for any of it and you can open up and be yourself. Just out of respect for incontinent members your post kind of confused me. Either way you are amongst friends here and I hope you get something out of becoming a member. We have some truly great members for all reasons.
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