Struggling with ABDL being a Christian. Support needed

[jakediapybum]

Hi I am a Christian and I am struggling so much feeling that my lifestyle is sinful and that it is keeping me from god. Has anyone dealt with these types of things? If so I’d love to connect to build a good support system.

 

[LittleAndAlone]

I'd say God gave you this and made you this way so enjoy it.

 

[jakediapybum]

I'd say God gave you this and made you this way so enjoy it.

I wish it were that easy, my whole life people tell me it’s the devil

 

[LittleAndAlone]

I wish it were that easy, my whole life people tell me it’s the devil

Do you trust God or other people?

 

[Deleted member 66129]

I wish it were that easy, my whole life people tell me it’s the devil

I'd say follow your heart and what your gut tells you. A relationship with the Lord is a personal thing,. The church isn't what it once was and personally I keep it at arms distance if you know what I mean. God is with you

 

[Deleted member 66129]

I wish it were that easy, my whole life people tell me it’s the devil

I'm sorry to make light of a situation but this reply had me thinking about the waterboy lol .

 

[jakediapybum]

Do you trust God or other people?

Lately. I’m not sure it’s been difficult and I’m letting negative thoughts get to me. I just feel distant from god

 

[jakediapybum]

I'm sorry to make light of a situation but this reply had me thinking about the waterboy lol .

Lol I always made that joke when people would say it’s the devil

 

[Deleted member 66129]

Lol I always made that joke when people would say it’s the devil

Lol did we just become best friends love that movie. You seem like a good person to me and I think you'll find God shines through good people that aren't quick to judge others for something they don't understand.

 

[TheGazelle]

Been through this and came to the realization that as long as it is not preventing you from furthering your relationship with God it’s not a problem. When you let it get in the way is when it’s a problem. It can be worked into your life in a healthy way in which it doesn’t effect your relationship with God. That may seem impossible at the moment but some counseling sessions would probably be helpful as long as the counselor is understanding.

My wife and I have worked through this for years. Our pastor knew prior to our marriage and since then several therapists have helped. I have yet to have someone say that I’m living in sin. What has been said is that it could lead to sin if not kept in check. That is to say interrupting normal life and my pursuit of Jesus.

 

[camdendl]

Hello I’m a DL and Christian. I look at it this way, what are you doing in your abdl lifestyle that you believe you’re sinning? If you’re just wearing diapers and acting like a baby or toddler in the privacy of your home that’s not sinning. However if you’re doing things that may cross boundaries (flashing your diaper in public, watching inappropriate video’s regarding diapers ) is it negatively affecting your relationships with others? Then that may be sinning. For me I love the feeling of wearing diapers and using them to go #1, but otherwise they just soft underwear I dispose of when I’m done. It’s the same with drinking. It okay to occasionally drink ( in the Bible, other drank), but it’s not okay to get purposely intoxicated. It’s all based on limits and self control if that make sense.

 

[camdendl]

Been through this and came to the realization that as long as it is not preventing you from furthering your relationship with God it’s not a problem. When you let it get in the way is when it’s a problem. It can be worked into your life in a healthy way in which it doesn’t effect your relationship with God. That may seem impossible at the moment but some counseling sessions would probably be helpful as long as the counselor is understanding.

My wife and I have worked through this for years. Our pastor knew prior to our marriage and since then several therapists have helped. I have yet to have someone say that I’m living in sin. What has been said is that it could lead to sin if not kept in check. That is to say interrupting normal life and my pursuit of Jesus.

This! If it’s not negatively affecting your relationship with God. You should be okay.

 

[Ecchi231]

Been through this and came to the realization that as long as it is not preventing you from furthering your relationship with God it’s not a problem. When you let it get in the way is when it’s a problem. It can be worked into your life in a healthy way in which it doesn’t effect your relationship with God. That may seem impossible at the moment but some counseling sessions would probably be helpful as long as the counselor is understanding.

My wife and I have worked through this for years. Our pastor knew prior to our marriage and since then several therapists have helped. I have yet to have someone say that I’m living in sin. What has been said is that it could lead to sin if not kept in check. That is to say interrupting normal life and my pursuit of Jesus.

Came here to say something very similar to this, but you summed it up better than I could. This is very good advice.

Jake, keep in mind that perfection and freedom from sin is not a prerequisite for being a Christian. The entire point of Christ is for Him to take the burden of our sins for us, as God knows that none of us can live up to the standard of complete perfection. That said, I'm not sure if you being ABDL in and of itself qualifies, as long as it doesn't negatively affect the rest of your life, work, and relationships, or push you toward other behaviors that are clearly sinful and destructive (porn, drug use, etc.).

 

[jakediapybum]

Hello I’m a DL and Christian. I look at it this way, what are you doing in your abdl lifestyle that you believe you’re sinning? If you’re just wearing diapers and acting like a baby or toddler in the privacy of your home that’s not sinning. However if you’re doing things that may cross boundaries (flashing your diaper in public, watching inappropriate video’s regarding diapers ) is it negatively affecting your relationships with others? Then that may be sinning. For me I love the feeling of wearing diapers and using them to go #1, but otherwise they just soft underwear I dispose of when I’m done. It’s the same with drinking. It okay to occasionally drink ( in the Bible, other drank), but it’s not okay to get purposely intoxicated. It’s all based on limits and self control if that make sense.

Well I have struggled with diaper pornography so that’s one thing and there’s a strong sexual component to my love for diapers

 

[Seasonedcitizen]

It is a sin only if it become a “false idol” that replaces your relationship with God. The Deuteronomy prohibition of cross dressing was for the pagan practice of homosexuality where in their temples, men dressed as women, women dressed as men, and everyone had sex with each other.

 

[UnderTheRadar]

So I would love to answer this... But I feel my answer might be offensive to something... So I'm going to just sit on the side

 

[Edgewater]

I am a Christian. I have severed the US Military, am a Great Lakes Sailor and have traveled North American and most all of Europe. I have witnessed the power of God, the greatness of His Hand and His Unmeasurable Love. I have also seen the demons that infest this World and have pushed them away.

All Christians have a passage that brings them comfort, mine starts very simply: God So Loved the World that He Gave His Only Son...

For a bit over 2000 years, Christians have gathered to share Gods Words and around them, institutions have formed, lead by Humans and as a result prone to the faultiness of Humans, those institutions have failed God. But in all cases, God continued to prevail within them. Over the years, individuals have splintered-off and created sub-sets based around Gods message. Sadly, the weakness of Humans have for their own use begun using 'FEAR' as a tool to pull individuals to their variation of God's message. Every time I am faced with one of those groups that use FEAR to draw and maintain membership I have found demons looking for opportunities hiding in mixed messages that ring of HATE.

Have long discussions with God, bring honesty and an open-heart to the Uplifting Joy of His Words.

I cannot not tell whether you are a sinner or simply someone in search for clearer understanding. But, be wary of those that speak in terms of FEAR and HATE!

God So Loved The World!!

 

[justmeP]

Hi I am a Christian and I am struggling so much feeling that my lifestyle is sinful and that it is keeping me from god. Has anyone dealt with these types of things? If so I’d love to connect to build a good support system.

Forget all the social guilt tripping and shaming. That is not what it's about. Try pondering the seven deadly sins Sloth, Gluttony, Pride, Fear, Envy Anger, and Lust (Keep in mind the bible says 'Get angry but sin not"...Lust is not just about sex. It's about obsessive compulsive behavior and fixation to the exclusion of all else. One can lust after money (It is the pursuit of money that is the root of all evil) power, property, prestige, attention and on an on. Now ponder how yielding to those urges bring damage to ourselves and others. He promised to send the Holy Spirit to guide us so we can change our behavior and our way and atone for the transgressions and damage we bring to others. Its a lifetime process and no one ever masters it. "lead us not into temptation"...Jut having urges or desires alone or feelings is NOT the sin Its what we do with them relative to our relationships and society. Love doesn't condemn. Love doesn't kill. Love wont' get you fried in you disobey. The ten commandments are more like energy relation cautions...Much like a parent cautioning a child to look both ways before crossing the street. If the child doesn't heed the warning is the parent the one that caused the damage? Will the parent fry and set their child on fire if they do screw up? NO. We have suffered from centuries of mis-teaching, mis-understanding and socialization. Are you hurting anyone? Are you causing damage to anyone one? BTW seven to the seventh power is 823, 543 possible combination (on a sliding scale of intensity) of behavior that any one of us can have on any given day in any given situation..

 

[Newbaby110521]

As a practicing Christian I understand where you’re coming from. If you are worried about this being a sin remember you are forgiven Christ paid the cost for your sins 2000 years ago. May I recommend reading the section on ABDL and faith in Michel Bents book ‘Being an Adult Baby.’ I’m trying to cut parts of my ABDL lifestyle that I know are sinful out of my life but it’s hard. But personally I don’t think ABDL is sinful unless you place it above God or make it your god.

 

[emberkitten]

id contact recovering from religion there a charity that helps people to recover from, religious trauma 844-368-2848 is there usa phone number if your feeling like a bad person for whereing diapers you have recived religous abuse dont let them use your gods name in vain ask them to point to the passage where they specifically say adults whereing diapers' is a sin

because i think they should remember (James 4:12).
“There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?”

and have them mind there own bees wax