Stop being a diaper lover

PhilanderNita said:
I, unfortunately, can't. Especially since it's been a part of me since I was 5 (or even younger, I don't exactly remember). It sucks because it's somewhat connected to my sexuality, even though it doesn't really define it per se. The problem with me accepting my diaper fetish is that it made me who I really am in real life (and on the Internet). I struggled so hard to fit in for years, especially since I was in middle school. I didn't really think anybody would accept me, so I tried to be edgy and hang around a bunch of assholes who treated me like shit in the end. I wish I could just tell my therapist with how I feel about my diaper fetish without making her think I'm a pedophile, since I don't think a lot of people really understand so much about adult babies/diaper lovers/babyfurs/diaper fetishists in general. Every day, I get worried that it might eventually get banned from other communities because some people absolutely despise me for that. I don't even know what's supposed to be my life after college since I've been so worked up for making a fake personality for 7 years now. I don't feel like I have a true passion other than wanting to be a baby again, aside from a few other things that I do in my freetime.
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I was also 4 1/2 to 5 when started sneaking diapers!!
 
Travis9800 said:
I clarified this in my previous comment but I shall reiterate for the purpose of your inquisition. I am still ABDL, but have amended the behavior due to affects I see single-use plastics is having on their environment due to the work am in. I've got to the point where my needs are less important to me than the needs of the many.

I am still participating in abdl artwork, literature, & have good friends in the Reddit abdl sub/r who are doing the same. Nothing unusual! It is ultimately my decision to stop purchasing certain products I do not need for incontinence purposes that I have learned to live without - regardless of how much I am bullied, berated with rhetorical questions, called "Toxic", or compared to alcoholics 😱 - which is kinda messed up btw, seeing that kills 3 million people a year according to the WHO (World Health Organization). A desperate angle to justify a callous "How dare you come back here" question in the first place.

(Bars serve food, Coffee, soft drinks etc. & offer social benefits - not just alcohol. Avoiding something is not the same as learning to say 'no' to it. Running from an addiction is not the same as confronting it.)

Maybe instead you could offer me a bit of support? Congratulate me? I'm proud of reducing this particular coping mechanism for the reasons stated. I am much happier for it. 😊
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Seriously, why are you taking my question as an attack? I’m not attacking you. Congrats on being able to say no to polluting the earth with the used diapers. If I could give this up, I totally would. And I only used and alcoholic in a bar as an example. I know our ABDLism is not like alcoholism, but I was just trying to further illustrate my point. If you have the will power to say no even while surrounding yourself with temptation, then more power to you. I commend you for that. For me, if Im addicted to chocolate cake, it’s probably best I don’t walk into a bakery.
 
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After managing my "binge and purge " cycles i found its a matter of set and setting
Yes i'd love to be padded 24\7 but my adult lifestyle doesnt allow for that
So putting a nappy on after work or on the weekend as a reward seems to work best. If i make myself earn it, it feels alot more rewarding and less guilty
Nappies always have and always will be in my heart till the day i die, its just a matter of balancing what you want out of them and what you need out of them ^.^
 
PaddedInHaslet said:
I’m not trying to judge anybody or say you have to, but if it’s possible to quit drinking, smoking, drugs or any bad habit, shouldn’t it be possible to quit wearing diapers?
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I'm sorry if I was the first to make you feel like a jerk. I was going through some things when I first posted. I was thinking about someone who was literally murdered by his family for his ABDLness, and worried about my brother, and my Daddy. Also, I was miffed that so few specialists exist, who knows what we are, and what we're not, that it leads to all this crud! I wasn't mad at your question, more so my disability, that makes posting harder, and getting all my sources cited harder still. The difference between a fetish, and an addiction is that a fetish can be incorporated into a life. An addiction sucks the life out of the person. Usually, incorporation quiets that thing in us.

I don't remember if it's part 1 or part 2, so I'll give you both, but this mentions this not being an addiction.
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It's like, "Am I addicted to food?"

"No. You're hungry. Eat."

Now, you might do diapers to excess, but that might very well be because you haven't, "eaten," in so long, and now you're Thanksgiving Day stuffed.

That's fine. Just don't puke, or get so big your life suffers.

What I wouldn't give to have a specialist's textbook right now. Okay, ABDL is not an orientation, because orientation is about who we like. ABDL is about what we like. It might not be an orientation, but it is a part of sexuality, which is a part of the personality, and starts when life does.
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https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/love-in-brief-resonantyes-roadnottaken-Q6Hnz_KZULS/

Episode 86, please.
 
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@Travis9800 kudos to you for finding your path. I also appreciate you sharing the rationale for quitting. FWIW, I didn’t take @LaPew or @PaddedInHaslet’s questions to be insincere. Your success just stoked some serious curiosity in many of us. It’s an unusual path and outcome. Take care and enjoy your freedom.
 
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Abdlchriscrinkle said:
IT DIDN'T. Lol

Once a diaper lover, always a diaper lover
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Absolutely. I have tried stopping but the need for nappies comes back stronger. I am now 24/7 and loving it. I have accepted who I am and I am a DL not AB.
 
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