FluffyWolfe
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Yolandi said:This has been bugging me for quite some time & I'm worried it might received some negative backlash but here it goes! So being a girl I feel it's some how wrong for me to use my diapers! Not so much about "wetting" but more about when it comes to messing! I feel it seems okay for an ABDL boy to mess but if a girl does it, it's looked upon as gross or weird & I find it really annoying! Why do I feel like I'm being brave by coming out and saying "yes I mess my diapers" like it's some sort of dirty little secret? I can't shake this feeling that because of my gender it's wrong of me to mess? "eh well I've been wanting to put that out there for quite some time but haven't had the courage until now! "eep"
Yolandi said:Yeah starting to regret this now!
Yolandi said:Thanks! I'm feeling a bit embarrassed that's all! I've never been able to talk about this stuff before & I really wanted to confirm if my feelings where true or not!
Don't regret it, I think we were all embarrassed about something from our AB/DL side, and it's not just that either, but Sissy/furry/etc. can be embarrassed about somethings too. It's just human nature to get embarrassed about somethings.
Which is why this community exists, to help people overcome and understand their activities in diapers and all the other categories of the forum. From my short time here, everyone has been quite supportive and I don't think I've seen any negativity at all, some people have put out jokes with somethings, but I think its a way for them to overcome their embarrassment of the subject.
For what it's worth, I think it's quite amazing you came out and said it. I'm sure many of the other females do it too, but don't say it for embarrassment reasons.
Just like you said, guys do it too and nothing is wrong with a female messing in a diaper, it should not make a difference from the genders of what can and cannot be done by either.
To be honest, I think it's quite cute when a girl messes (and wets) her diaper. I'd love to find a girl who shares the interest of wetting and messing (even do I don't do it often), and just wearing for a day or two before using the diaper.
BTW, I absolutely love your avatar, she is very cute