swbell said:
So I bought home a case of adult diapers home and my mother screamed at me how people are gonna talk about my "abnormality" and called me a devil's child.
Try to take comfort in knowing your mother's reaction is
not "normal". She's less concerned about you and more concerned about how others will look at her
because of you. That's not healthy, but we do see it somewhat frequently around here.
Part of ADISC's mission is to help provide support for people that can't get it through the normal channels, which is the situation it looks like you're in. We'll be here for you.
As for your question on how to deal with it, you have three options when you're in a "toxic environment":
1- you can try to change the environment. but people can be hard to change. there are some successes stories, but the odds are pretty badly stacked against you. you can try, but don't bet too many chips.
2- you can relocate. that's the most common suggestion you'll get here after you've tried the above without success. it can also be the most work, and isn't an option for a lot of people. it's a common suggestion because it's got the best chance of resolving your problem. But we see a lot of people here with disabilities, and for them moving is difficult, impractical, or just plain impossible.
3- you can tolerate it. It depresses me to see people choose to stay in a toxic environment, but some people have their reasons, and for some it's the only option. You'll get some resistance to that plan here because we like to help people solve problems that appear to be solvable. If it sounds like you're truly stuck, we're a shoulder to cry on and a room to vent in, and will help you find ways to cope and make the best of a bad situation. Otherwise we're going to encourage you to try one of the other two options to improve your situation.
Your circumstances will determine which options are available to you, and it's difficult for us to fully understand your situation without a fair amount of discussion. Let us know how we can help.