Tomtomthedl
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Dinotopian2002 said:...And this is one of the main reasons why I'm single.
There are others, but my diaper wearing is a big one.
Unfortunately it's not a lifestyle choice, but a medical need.
I'd love a 1, but I'd be very happy with a 2. However I could NOT live with a 3. That's non-negotiable.
There's a lot of disbelief and stigma around my health issues (both separate and combined), and bringing a potential partner up to speed with everything is going to take a lot of work - and energy - anyway. I don't need someone who can't see that.
I'm really not an easy person to be in a relationship with, for a number of reasons.
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Dinotopian2002
Well said to the both of you.Luminaire said:That's a really healthy way to look at this. Relationships are about compromise. Yes it hurts when our SO's don't want to see or be a part of this side of ourselves. However, we also can't see things from their perspective. Being happy with option 2 is not a bad thing. #1 would be wonderful but as for #3? No one should ever have to completely conform to someone else's standards in order to be in a happy relationship. Both parties need to be willing to give, as well as take.
There's also nothing wrong with avoiding relationships. I'm an extremely introverted engineer. I often wonder if I should have avoided marriage.