For me, the sagging is possibly my favorite part of the diapered experience. Something about a diaper sagging down at the bottom makes me helpless and vulnerable, which is exactly the kind of headspace I want to be in when I am little.
I only wear premium plastic-backed diapers with baby prints all over because they are elite performing diapers, and wearing them gives my little self a sense of babyish satisfaction. My new absolute favorite diaper is the Rearz Dinosaur Elite, and probably my favorite thing about this diaper is that the tapes are rock-solid enough to hold A LOT of weight, which lets me enjoy feeling the supreme bulk between my legs as I wet more and more without worrying about the diaper totally falling off.
One thing I have notice about the Dinosaurs is that they do clump up a lot as they get more than half way full, and at least in theory, that should lower their overall absorbency by preventing the pee from diffusing evenly throughout the diaper. That said, I’ve never successfully gotten these diapers to have a full on leak, and believe me when I say I give them some serious punishment over the course of a day, including multiple moderate floodings.
One thing I do that does extend their usefulness is to wet from multiple different positions and at different angles to spread the urine around different parts of the diaper, I never wet laying flat on my back (because then they will leak through the front of the wings for some reason) and never wet lying flat on my tummy (because then they will leak through the top).
Basically i change the these diapers whenever I begin to feel some wetness outside the leg guards, which is usually after 8-10 hours of heavy wetting. That’s pretty incredible when compared to the numerous other overnight diapers I’ve had completely fail and leak everywhere after only a few wettings. I weighed the one I wore all day yesterday and it was 21 pounds, and tapes were still as strong as an oak when I finally took it off. The bulging and sagging were glorious.
