If my diaper is not full and wet by the time I poop my diaper, then I wait until my diaper is completely full even if it's poopy. I can't afford to waste a diaper for only 3 wettings or if I have a clean diaper on and then just poop in it I have to wait until it's completely full. That usually means my diaper has to be to the point of leaking. Diapers are expensive and for me since I'm in a diaper 24/7 (even when I'm at work), I am still wearing a wet diaper. I won't poop my diaper at work and it always never happens. But if I'm out and about like shopping, and I have to poop ill just stop what I'm doing in a store and mess my diaper in public. But at the Sametime I'm not squatting to poop my diaper in public. To me I don't let people get to me if I'm in public messing my diaper. In a way for me it makes me really feel like I'm a baby in a store with a wet poopy diaper. But like I said for me all of my diapers must be very full before I change into a new one. I wear Tena XL super absorbency tabbed diapers with 2 of the Sposie booster pads in it. I can get by wearing my diaper from anywhere from 13 to 26 hours. But I also wear a latex rubber diaper cover (incontrol is the diaper cover) over my diaper and it prevents leaks and it is very form fitting. Usually when I wake up to get ready for work is usually when I change into a new diaper and that is always when I have my daily poop. I work in a elementary school as a Paraeducator and wearing a poopy diaper or pooping in my diaper is a hard thing to do. So I'm lucky. If I don't poop my diaper in the morning, then I usually hold it until I'm walking home or just outside the school to poop my diaper. Even then it's still not full and wet so then I still have another 12 hours of wearing it. My wife doesn't mind and if it really gets to smelly which it never does (because I also use a very high scented baby powder body oil in my diaper to control odors.) When it comes to cleaning myself, I go into the tub and take my diaper off and use my diaper to wipe off some of the mess and throw the fully wet and messy diaper away. Then I shower off. As far as the poop going down the drain, it doesn't, because I have a tub wire net that catches the small particles and then I knock it into the toilet and flush it. There is also a comfort to me when I can wear a poopy wet diaper for a long period of time. For me it's soothing and comfortable and makes all stress go away from the day. So I can be messy and wet for a very long time.