killahB
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One aspect of my ABDL side that I have a hard time reconciling or even experimenting with is my desire to wear baby girl diapers and clothes. I have no doubts in my mind that this desire stems from the fact that my parents have both made it clear my entire life that they were VERY disappointed by my being born a male (my entire family on my father's side has a pathological preference for female offspring). Apparently, my being born male led to my father's refusal to allow my mom to have a third child. I very clearly remember as a small child fantasizing about being treated as a baby girl, and I am certain that this was due to the lack of affection my parents showed me.
I am a straight, cisgendered male, so this aspect of my ABDL side has definitely caused me lots of inner conflict. Lately, though, as I have been trying to let myself be open to new experiences and just let myself live the life that I desire rather than continue to try and win my parents' approval (never gonna happen), I am finding myself more open to at least trying this.
My only concern with maybe trying this out is that I might be reopening some childhood psychological wounds that might be best left alone. Although it has taken decades to finally start letting loose, it is happening, and I don't want to impede this long-awaited progress. Does anyone have any advice regarding potential psychological impact of what I guess would be called gender play?
Or am I just looking for an excuse to continue not indulging?
I am a straight, cisgendered male, so this aspect of my ABDL side has definitely caused me lots of inner conflict. Lately, though, as I have been trying to let myself be open to new experiences and just let myself live the life that I desire rather than continue to try and win my parents' approval (never gonna happen), I am finding myself more open to at least trying this.
My only concern with maybe trying this out is that I might be reopening some childhood psychological wounds that might be best left alone. Although it has taken decades to finally start letting loose, it is happening, and I don't want to impede this long-awaited progress. Does anyone have any advice regarding potential psychological impact of what I guess would be called gender play?
Or am I just looking for an excuse to continue not indulging?