StarrySky
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Now that the year is almost over, what does everyone want to do next year?
That sounds very peaceful, hope you have the best time of your life on those walksianwee said:Go for more nice walks in the countryside when it's not raining (for a change)
Seems like a long term plan here. Anything special you saving for or do you want to have a buffer?BobbiSueEllen said:For 2024:
For 2025:
- Pay off the cards,
- See the total solar eclipse,
- Pack money away,
- Keep at it past 2024...
For 2026:
- Continue saving to $10,000,
- Begin searching for affordable land and buy it before year's out,
- Dig well, prep/hopefully finish septic...
I won't have much baby stuff to buy in the interim...maybe a cheap dress or two, some diapers. I don't know of any other baby furniture I need...maybe a rocky horse? I could build a custom crib or two for others here and there.
- Finish prepping land,
- Get property reappraised,
- Get building permit,
- Borrow against property value for building materials,
- Build,
- Move in,
- Pay off loan within 4 years.
I would be on that a little bit to as i want to lose some more wight.Sealander said:Exercise more; lose 25 lbs.
Good plan!chamberpot said:I just plan to make it to 2025 doing whatever it takes, one day at a time
I have no other plans, only to cope with various automotive issues, maybe tuck away random dollars or do odd jobs for a dress. I have no other desires that occupy others' minds, like sports cars, alcohol, trolling for sex; my goals are need-based, they get done. And I want my own place: privacy for my baby life, freedom from rent hikes/rules...freedom from being told "You gotta move". My own place.abdl86 said:Seems like a long term plan here. Anything special you saving for or do you want to have a buffer?
Yes it is always nice to have your own place where you can do what you want and wear what you wantBobbiSueEllen said:I have no other plans, only to cope with various automotive issues, maybe tuck away random dollars or do odd jobs for a dress. I have no other desires that occupy others' minds, like sports cars, alcohol, trolling for sex; my goals are need-based, they get done. And I want my own place: privacy for my baby life, freedom from rent hikes/rules...freedom from being told "You gotta move". My own place.
It's "My Place or Bust", just put my head down and push on.
A worthy goal. I can still clearly remember living in my apartment. I was very happy to final have my own place. To do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted and had to notify nor seek permission from noone. But, it was still an apartment, not truly my own.BobbiSueEllen said:It's "My Place or Bust", just put my head down and push on.
You’re making me appreciate the home that I have and the other things that I have in my life. I’ve been told that the secret to not being possessed by your possessions is to hold on loosely, that way if they’re taken away it doesn’t hurt too much. For me it’s about gratitude and being thankful for what you have which is far easier if you come from a place where you’ve had little, or nothing. That was my state after my wife sought her divorce over 30 years ago, but I’ve rebounded and may get back to where I was….any day now! It’s good to hear that you’re getting a place where you don’t have to worry about getting a 30 day notice to vacate. It’s been nearly 30 years since I’ve paid rent so I’ve forgotten about rent day anxiety and having to come up with the funds every month. My house payment is only $493 a month, far less than I could rent my 2 bedroom house with an attached 2-1/2 car heated garage for, and it includes escrow for insurance and taxes, and it’s on autopay so I never think about it anymore. Thanks for reminding me how fortunate I am and hopefully you will find yourself being soon.BobbiSueEllen said:I have no other plans, only to cope with various automotive issues, maybe tuck away random dollars or do odd jobs for a dress. I have no other desires that occupy others' minds, like sports cars, alcohol, trolling for sex; my goals are need-based, they get done. And I want my own place: privacy for my baby life, freedom from rent hikes/rules...freedom from being told "You gotta move". My own place.
It's "My Place or Bust", just put my head down and push on.