Met a mommy online
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yes
you already know
never give $ or personal info online
you're gonna lose your money and risk identify theft / blackmail
you already know
never give $ or personal info online
you're gonna lose your money and risk identify theft / blackmail
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99.9999999% chance it is a scam. Do not give over any personally identifying info that could be used for identity theft or blackmail. Do not give money. Do not even answer quizzes about your first pet or teachers or birthdays or other info that can be used to access your online accounts.Gerdl said:
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this came up a couple of weeks ago. It is almost certainly a scam. Take a read through these posts and you will see how it can escalate if you are not careful . https://www.adisc.org/forum/threads/weekend-playing-a-teen.175463/
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All online Mommies/Sitters/etc. are scams. All of them. I hope others are reading this...
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Looking for Mommies on line is fraught with danger. The chance of finding anything meaningful is MINISCULE. The chance of getting scammed or worse is very great.
If you are truly looking for a mommy read @sbmcue book, "TENDER LOVING FUN", he provides a tried and tested blueprint of how over decades he was able to find good caregivers/mommies. Absent that, you just need to cultivate a relationship with someone that you really like and genuinely likes you. That is the first step. If you are just looking for some random girl friend to fill this role it wont happen, not for the long term at least. You should have commonalities out side of your wish to have a mommy, and then maybe you can build from there.
There are a million posts on here on when and how to and how not to tell someone about this. Read them ALL!
If you are truly looking for a mommy read @sbmcue book, "TENDER LOVING FUN", he provides a tried and tested blueprint of how over decades he was able to find good caregivers/mommies. Absent that, you just need to cultivate a relationship with someone that you really like and genuinely likes you. That is the first step. If you are just looking for some random girl friend to fill this role it wont happen, not for the long term at least. You should have commonalities out side of your wish to have a mommy, and then maybe you can build from there.
There are a million posts on here on when and how to and how not to tell someone about this. Read them ALL!
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ABDL mommies/ daddies are a myth created by the government
This is common knowledge people, c'mon
This is common knowledge people, c'mon
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The ones that message you offering their services (unsolicited), then insult you when you ask if they do ABDL sessions are also fun to deal with too.
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That's why you just never ask and remain too afraid to look at all! It's a foolproof plan, I'm gonna patent it within the next century or so.southeastlittle said:
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what about people on fetlife.com are they just liars too? because i meet someone and she hasn't asked for money, just talking and after telling her some of the things i have and am into she wants me to move in with her and be her baby, or atleast she calls me baby, and really wants to talk alot more but from what some of you have said i'm a little worried but at the same time i feel like i can trust her i hope she doesn't see this and gets mad at me or think i don't trust her because i really do just some of what you guys have said makes me nervous and well i am easily scared
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You might be able to find a like minded person on fetlife but keep your spidey senses on. Don't give her any money or gift cards, if she talks about expenses of taking care of you run the other way.
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I just got on fetlife myself, but am very leery because I got screwed on abdl match last year.littlemoosey said:
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The world is full of very maternal women, but the chances of an infantilist finding one who's open-minded enough to diaper or babysit an AB within a relationship are quite small. Not to say it doesn't happen, or that it can't, but few of us get that lucky.
I've taken my share of criticism for daring to suggest that the rest of us must resort to paying someone to look after us, but that's the sad truth.
I found Fetlife quite a quagmire, but I tried it. In point of fact, I've tried almost everything over the past 40 years. I've become quite adept at recruiting women to babysit me – that's why I wrote Tender Loving Fun – but I've given up finding a Significant Other who will spend a few hours a week treating me as a baby or toddler out of the goodness of her heart. There's still some baby play in my current relationship, but I don't rely on my SO to be a constant caregiver.
Anyway, the old rule of thumb – if it seems too good to be true, it probably is – applies here. Ignore it at your peril.
I've taken my share of criticism for daring to suggest that the rest of us must resort to paying someone to look after us, but that's the sad truth.
I found Fetlife quite a quagmire, but I tried it. In point of fact, I've tried almost everything over the past 40 years. I've become quite adept at recruiting women to babysit me – that's why I wrote Tender Loving Fun – but I've given up finding a Significant Other who will spend a few hours a week treating me as a baby or toddler out of the goodness of her heart. There's still some baby play in my current relationship, but I don't rely on my SO to be a constant caregiver.
Anyway, the old rule of thumb – if it seems too good to be true, it probably is – applies here. Ignore it at your peril.
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thank you for your advice it is very helpful i will be cautious in the future and take things a little slow and get to know here before moving in
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Yes, my eyes have been opened as well coming to the realization that finding a mommy will be very difficult.Tigressmoon22 said:
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I could be wrong about what I just said; heck, I've been online for only 24 years, all of it AB/DL so I'm still learning. But I haven't seen everything. Just a little less than everything. 
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Sadly, the internet is full of people trying to part people from their money, and they'll push every button to get you to open up, share details, photo's, all whilst pretending to be "just" what you're looking for.
Specialist dating websites are *mostly* run by bots for monetary reward.
Fetlife, yeah, its a quagmire filled by finDommes, fakes and also a lot of genuine peeps. But, that said, have conversations with people, interact, both online and in person. I got lucky on Fet, maybe you could too.
Just take everything with a pinch of salt, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
Specialist dating websites are *mostly* run by bots for monetary reward.
Fetlife, yeah, its a quagmire filled by finDommes, fakes and also a lot of genuine peeps. But, that said, have conversations with people, interact, both online and in person. I got lucky on Fet, maybe you could too.
Just take everything with a pinch of salt, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
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Wish I would have known about the fake bots on that ABDL dating site last year could have saved some moneyJustC said:
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yup... guarenteed scammer...
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