SnickersTheFoxx
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Hello, this is going to be a long read...
I told my wife about my abdl stuff before we married, about a year into our relationship. I was open about my medical issues and needing diapers and protection from the start.
We have 3 children, before our last was born (6 years ago) we were heavy into the bdsm stuff and basically 24/7 mdlb.
2 years ago she had enough of it and told me that she didn't want it anymore, we almost divorced over a build up of issues and this new wanting to change our dynamic thing. We compensated on a switch thing that eventually turned into a DDlg dynamic only.
We reverted back to mdlb, we came to this mutually. But since then it feels like I'm asking too much. I just want things to be the way they used to be. Our kids are older and usually doing their own thing. We have plenty of privacy, and I just need to be babied. I crave it, I mention it and she says she doesn't like some of it the way she used to.
Now, I'm all about compromising, I introduced her to this and it's been our thing for almost 10 years.
But I'm struggling alot now, the kids are all in school full time. She doesn't work, doesn't want to, that was the plan always, we'd wait until the kids were in school, then she'd get a job to help out. But lately it's just been excuses, the puppy can't be alone, I don't know what I could do while the kids are in school, my aunt doesn't work and they're just fine. Her aunt is in her. 40's, no kids, and her husband is ok with it...
I make a pretty decent living, we could be just fine without her working. But I'm out of town for 20 days and home for 10. During those 10 days I just want some baby time, if she doesn't want to work, would I be demanding too much if I asked her to give me a day or two of just baby time while I'm home? Even just while the kids are in school?
TLDR : marital issues suck sometimes.
I told my wife about my abdl stuff before we married, about a year into our relationship. I was open about my medical issues and needing diapers and protection from the start.
We have 3 children, before our last was born (6 years ago) we were heavy into the bdsm stuff and basically 24/7 mdlb.
2 years ago she had enough of it and told me that she didn't want it anymore, we almost divorced over a build up of issues and this new wanting to change our dynamic thing. We compensated on a switch thing that eventually turned into a DDlg dynamic only.
We reverted back to mdlb, we came to this mutually. But since then it feels like I'm asking too much. I just want things to be the way they used to be. Our kids are older and usually doing their own thing. We have plenty of privacy, and I just need to be babied. I crave it, I mention it and she says she doesn't like some of it the way she used to.
Now, I'm all about compromising, I introduced her to this and it's been our thing for almost 10 years.
But I'm struggling alot now, the kids are all in school full time. She doesn't work, doesn't want to, that was the plan always, we'd wait until the kids were in school, then she'd get a job to help out. But lately it's just been excuses, the puppy can't be alone, I don't know what I could do while the kids are in school, my aunt doesn't work and they're just fine. Her aunt is in her. 40's, no kids, and her husband is ok with it...
I make a pretty decent living, we could be just fine without her working. But I'm out of town for 20 days and home for 10. During those 10 days I just want some baby time, if she doesn't want to work, would I be demanding too much if I asked her to give me a day or two of just baby time while I'm home? Even just while the kids are in school?
TLDR : marital issues suck sometimes.
