TheBlueHeron
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I have issues with both bladder and bowel control, and although it's been a lifelong issue, there's been a steep decline in the past few years.
Worsening control depends on many factors, caffeine, alcohol, antihistamine use, running water (even just the sound sometimes) can take my run-time down to almost nil.
I work from home with a standing desk near the bathroom, so I can postpone and get there within a few minutes if I'm feeling brave enough to go "commando" for a bit to dry out. It's just as urgent for both.
But if a dip is taped on, especially once it gets warm, it's all over. No notice and often no realization it's even happening. It's a constant struggle, do I wear and forget about it or gamble to stand on a chuck and run 12 times a day?
And cloth? Forget about it!
The barrier of cloth and the various restraints that are required to keep that type of protection in place make it an impossible goal. Once I get set for the night, I don't even bother.
The defeat of getting almost there and wetting anyway is enough to make me raise the white flag, but cloth is a necessary evil for overnight and a money saving investment only if it's used regularly.
So while I appreciate the options for protection, I also feel it's a deal with the devil. I saw someone post a bit ago about not being DL, but a diaperOKayer. I think I fall there as well.
You're okay, dips, for now, but keep your distance.
Sorry for the rant. Does anyone feel similarly?
Worsening control depends on many factors, caffeine, alcohol, antihistamine use, running water (even just the sound sometimes) can take my run-time down to almost nil.
I work from home with a standing desk near the bathroom, so I can postpone and get there within a few minutes if I'm feeling brave enough to go "commando" for a bit to dry out. It's just as urgent for both.
But if a dip is taped on, especially once it gets warm, it's all over. No notice and often no realization it's even happening. It's a constant struggle, do I wear and forget about it or gamble to stand on a chuck and run 12 times a day?
And cloth? Forget about it!
The barrier of cloth and the various restraints that are required to keep that type of protection in place make it an impossible goal. Once I get set for the night, I don't even bother.
The defeat of getting almost there and wetting anyway is enough to make me raise the white flag, but cloth is a necessary evil for overnight and a money saving investment only if it's used regularly.
So while I appreciate the options for protection, I also feel it's a deal with the devil. I saw someone post a bit ago about not being DL, but a diaperOKayer. I think I fall there as well.
You're okay, dips, for now, but keep your distance.
Sorry for the rant. Does anyone feel similarly?