...first thing I'd do is pay off my kids' mortgages, buy them cars and set up college funds for the grandkids.
Second thing I'd do: pay off my friend's place here...for a thank-you gift.
Third: get back in diapers, 24/7 and live as a toddler girl, dresses an' all.
Fourth: create a charter nonprofit group called Celebrate Autism (or something like that), where there would be a few home-setting communities for people with autism to live, express, be themselves...at sliding-scale rent. Lifestyle-friendly (especially AB/DL), gender/sexuality-friendly, welcoming, supporting...with minimal structure.
i'd love to do that.