Edgewater said:
I strongly stand against individuals using a Forum to garner support as a part of only knowing a single side of a discussion! If you want total independence, more out and live on your own!
In my humble opinion, the OP is asking a question.
- Will it garner her support, maybe from a mental side, but not from a physical and/or legal perspective as this is support from anonomized people.
- Is it a single side discussion - maybe.
Does the OP know this information - YES. So where is the problem?
Is the OP looking for alternate ways of handling the issue - Maybe YES
As a result, offering opinions on this subject is valid online, so if you, as you clearly state that you disagree
I strongly stand against individuals other people,
using a Forum, like ADISC, for support
to garner support, then why are you offering an opinion?
abdlprincess1988 said:
My mom acts like she can control my money from work and the. Denies she is but wants me to spend money on things I don’t want to I am at a loss to how to get her to stop any help or advice is appreciated I would post this places like Facebook but too many people my family knows are on Facebook
@abdlprincess1988 as others have asked, is the items your mother is suggesting, in your opinion frivilous or needed? It is said that a parent has only the welfare of their child at heart, so in your case, your mothers intentions may be honourable. Not online, but can you make a list of what she has asked / got you to purchase / spend your money on, and identify what, if any, was of benifit to you, to both of you and/or to her alone. Once this list is done, total up the three columns ad work out, by percentage, what you covered that was not in your interest. Then, you can use this list to accurately identify whether there is a real or imaginary problem (not saying that you are imaging it, but that is always a possibility).
If there is a real quantifiable issue, third party mediation may be your only recourse if she does not listen to your concerns.