havelockellis
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Hi, I go by Havelock (taken from the psychologist Havelock Ellis). I travel quite a bit, mostly US/UK/EU with a bit of Asia. I also grew up splitting time between the US and EU. I’m a scientific mind with a bit of time spent on psychology and anthropology. I like understanding history, people, societies and social norms. I also like the craft of story telling and narrative.
For years I thought I had a pee fetish focused mainly on public peeing but I think some of the psychology overlaps with AB/DL. Diapers are really not my thing. While I have a few good memories of being put in a diaper by a nanny to “go pipi" at a young age, those are pretty isolated. I occasionally look at porn of girls peeing in diapers but my preference is seeing peeing in public and I don’t really have a desire to wear a diaper.
What I think may be related and I tend to think about fondly is when the nannies were potty training me / when I was young and they helped me take a "nature pee" or pipi outside. I have many good memories of being sweetly guided to various places outside to pee and being directed to pee on a variety of things (walls, car wheels, garages, sidewalks, trees bushes etc.) in a variety of situations. It always felt like they put my needs ahead of public perceptions or any concerns about soiling things. Most of this took place in Europe (Spain and France) where outdoor peeing is accepted. This was always contrasted with much more strict upbringing in the US where such peeing was not allowed or had to be uncomfortably delayed and hidden.
As a result I've become fascinated by the significant cultural differences around the world to peeing, pottying, toilets etc.
I’ve also found I enjoy relationships where my female partners act like the nannies of my youth, check if I need to pipi, and guide me to a place I can have a potty break outside. If they unzip me, help me and hold me that adds to the experience. If they disregard society in nonchalantly choosing a convenient location that will leave a mess/puddle, that’s even better.
I've had a few partners who will indulge me in this role, but only one who I think could truly empathize with my psychology. This ex-girlfriend spent her early life in in China where they use split crotch pants instead of diapers. Thus, the same feelings many AB/DL have about diapers, she had about being held to pee outside. We would often role play and switch roles and she really got into it.
Anyway, that's my intro. I'm here to learn. Am I unusual in AB/DL world? Does anyone else share this overlapping interest in being helped with nature pees?
For years I thought I had a pee fetish focused mainly on public peeing but I think some of the psychology overlaps with AB/DL. Diapers are really not my thing. While I have a few good memories of being put in a diaper by a nanny to “go pipi" at a young age, those are pretty isolated. I occasionally look at porn of girls peeing in diapers but my preference is seeing peeing in public and I don’t really have a desire to wear a diaper.
What I think may be related and I tend to think about fondly is when the nannies were potty training me / when I was young and they helped me take a "nature pee" or pipi outside. I have many good memories of being sweetly guided to various places outside to pee and being directed to pee on a variety of things (walls, car wheels, garages, sidewalks, trees bushes etc.) in a variety of situations. It always felt like they put my needs ahead of public perceptions or any concerns about soiling things. Most of this took place in Europe (Spain and France) where outdoor peeing is accepted. This was always contrasted with much more strict upbringing in the US where such peeing was not allowed or had to be uncomfortably delayed and hidden.
As a result I've become fascinated by the significant cultural differences around the world to peeing, pottying, toilets etc.
I’ve also found I enjoy relationships where my female partners act like the nannies of my youth, check if I need to pipi, and guide me to a place I can have a potty break outside. If they unzip me, help me and hold me that adds to the experience. If they disregard society in nonchalantly choosing a convenient location that will leave a mess/puddle, that’s even better.
I've had a few partners who will indulge me in this role, but only one who I think could truly empathize with my psychology. This ex-girlfriend spent her early life in in China where they use split crotch pants instead of diapers. Thus, the same feelings many AB/DL have about diapers, she had about being held to pee outside. We would often role play and switch roles and she really got into it.
Anyway, that's my intro. I'm here to learn. Am I unusual in AB/DL world? Does anyone else share this overlapping interest in being helped with nature pees?
, so I'm very lucky at the moment. 
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, sometimes I just couldn't control myself.